What would be the largest age gap in a person you would date?

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Given the case that you're the younger person.
For instance, the widow of my great uncle got married to him when she was 20 and he was 49!! They eventually lived a happy married life

How many years older than you could accept in a partner, given that he/she has everything you're looking for.

P. S. I'm facing kind of a similar case

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Kind of an odd question for me because I don't normally look at women older than me other than a couple years. I've seen a few that I found attractive but didn't go so far as to try and pursue anything so I have no idea.

But your question says "given that he/she has everything you're looking for." so if that's true, then age doesn't really matter. I guess I could even date a 70 or 80 year old woman if "he/she has everything y (I'm) looking for.", but I don't really know how that would be possible since part of what I look for is someone who turns me on physically/sexually and I don't know if there are any women that old who do that for me. But taking your question as it stands, I would stand by the old adage "Age ain't nothing but a number" so go ahead and wheel in my dream geriatric lady. (actually, part of what I'm looking for is an athletic, ambulatory person as well, so scratch that part about the wheeling).

This was the hottest, oldest, lady I could find

As for your personal situation you're "kinda facing", I am a big believer in love and I say go for it. If you're questioning us about it, it means you want it, and that means you should go for it. You're 24, which is kind of young but also not that young, and you live and learn. It's better to live your life unafraid and dive in than to always hesitate and look back in regret.

Gravit1 · Accepted Answer

I stay within 3 years, my girlfriend is just over 2 years older. She is beautiful and she says I look older than her (at least with my stache). Without my stache people assume I'm under 20, with it 27 (Though I am about to be 23). Data suggest every year greater than a 5 year age gap has an additional 5% increase in divorce rates. The actual divorce rate is closer to 35%. So 7 years would have a 45% chance. People are more than numbers so really it comes down to shared maturity, values, and beliefs. If all match your relationship is likely to thrive.

Medicalbug · Accepted Answer

Probably 15 years older, give or take - after that it’s kind of a generation gap, even though most people don’t reproduce at 15. I have a much older cousin who is 51 and they can remember being a teenager in the 80s, which is surreal to me. The other cousin is like 44 or 45 and is more like me. They were more like an older sibling growing up and we still have a good relationship now. So I’d put a theoretical cap at about 46ish. If you were the same age as the Karate Kid characters when the movies came out, I have a hard time imagining what your life looked like outside of film.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Date, well won't matter for just dating but if I want something more than that (which I do) then I'd probably go no more than 38 right now.

If I was just dating for fun, some of those older guys can really show me a good time, but I wouldn't want to be married to them.

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

10 years but i may make exceptions if he looks very young, handsome and has good personality. The guy below is the same age as my dad but he looks so good and young for example.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

-10 years. I would never under any circumstance date a woman older or even close to my age. I would date down as low as is legal with no maximum gap if thats what i felt like doing. This is because men and women are different and I don't believe relationships are likely to turn out well in the opposite.

lilyanony1 · Answer

No more than 10 years. I'm nearly 31 and 41 is a big age difference. I did see recently though that a British woman aged 81 has married an Egyptian man who's in his 30's.

boobliker · Answer

I have a pal of 80 jot a live in lover of 23 and she is very nice to and never gets in the way when his pays are about it works for them she will have a big house when he goes, ? is she working for that I don't think so?

Avicenna · Answer

Well, she'd need to be at least 20 years old. On the older side, it depends on her physical condition because I do a lot of outdoor activities.

Wester1967 · Answer

Here. Let me scare the living horse crap out of you kids. My last date was 19 years old. Riddle me this, Batman. Why was she dating me and not you?

CCKITTY · Answer

Well I’m 20, and my boyfriend and is 30 I feel like this age gap is almost pushing it🥴🥴

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

5 years older than me…  If I were 30, I’d say maybe 10 years.

rachel776 · Answer

mine was 25 years but normally about 5 years older

AdithyaR · Answer

Anything more than a year older or younger than me feels weird

Anonymous · Answer

Double my age (23) maybe higher still for the like of Liz Hurley or either of the Minogue sisters

Shiningtempest · Answer

@jrc1611 The largest age gap in a person I would date is 6 years.

silvermoon84 · Answer

I’m 37 right now, I wouldn’t go older than 50

sage2021 · Answer

10 years younger than myself.

rod23 · Answer

If your happy it doesn't matter

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

I go no older than 35 and no younger than 25

DizzyDesii · Answer

Preferably 3 years

Starla1234 · Answer

11 years

exitseven · Answer

ten years

pink_and_inlove · Answer

5 years

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