What would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend of 8 months told you that they wanted to break up with you every day?

[sasarin]

What u gonna do? Or think? Or feel?

[OlderAndWiser]

If a girlfriend REALLY wanted to break up with me, she wouldn't be telling me every day. She would tell me once, then she would end the relationship and we would have no further contact. That's how it works for my generation and for many of your generation as well.

I assume this guy doesn't rally want to break up so why does he make this comment. Most likely, he is reminding you that he has the power to break up with you and he thinks that your fear of a break up will make you more agreeable to do whatever he wants in a relationship.

Do you want to live with someone like that for the rest of your life? If not, then why spend more of your life with him when there are other guys who will treat you much better and not try to manipulate you like this?

[ChkltCat]

this girl's conversation is the best example for desperation

[OlderAndWiser]

@ChkltCat Absolutely.

[AviatorTom]

If they tell you that every day, they obviously are not breaking up with you. They could be mad at you or they could be mad at themselves... in either case, it may be just a defensive reaction. If you want to continue the relationship, have a calm sit down talk with them and try to understand why they keep saying that.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Lmao... dang.

Ok... so i used to do this every year as a running joke with my now wife. I said we had to break up the day before our anniversary so I could ask her out again on the day of our anniversary and every year would be our honeymoon phase.

She of course always said no, especially after we finally got married, but it did always make her smile and I'd do or give anything to see her smile.

[Medicalbug]

I’d probably say well, since you keep saying that every day and never act on it, let me do you a favor and end this relationship for you. You’re welcome.
It honestly - What kind of person acts like that, really. They sound extremely immature and petulant.

[nandana_n]

Exactly lol

[dankstranger]

After she threatened it enough I'd get tired of thay and eventually tell her "I know you want me to do it for you but I won't so quit talking about it and do it already if your going to".

Thats what that sounds like she wants him to do it so she can feel she has a clear conscious.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d be hurt but i’d respond. WELL HOE YOU-JUST GOT GRANTED YOUR FIRST WISH! We’re over. And i may seek closure. May not. Screw em. I’ll get over em before the week ends

[nandana_n]

Prr💅

[Wgatap999]

To me 8 months is nothing if they said that to me I'd be like goodbye on to the next one whenever that happens. I have absolutely no time for bullshit with a woman the minute I noticed they're playing games or they start that shit I'm out

[jess05]

If she or he said that, I would assume that they want you to be OK with it.. Because they don't want to create any lasting negative feelings. You should respect there feelings. It's ok to be sad.
But if they want to go, you need to respect it.

[AncientWisdom]

That’s immaturity and sounds like a narcissistic firm of control that’s a red flag and no you can’t fix it best to bounce before you invest to much more in my opinion. Always know your worth

[Aerissa_Jade]

Sounds like he wants to be controlling, trying to manipulate.

[Prettygurl12]

Every day? Bruh you told me this yesterday. Get the hell out of here already so I can go about my business.

[Subarugirl]

I would break up with them... they are either trying to manipulate me, or they aren't sure they want to be with be and I wouldn't put up with either of those reasons.

[Anonymous]

Say okay and go my separate way. People who threaten this constantly (or even rarely) are emotionally draining. I don't let people continue to make empty threats. If they want to keep saying it, then it's really gonna happen.

[Dinklex3]

I would've been fine with it after the first time, lol.

[dustybiker]

Immaturity. Manipulation. “Don’t let the door hit you on the way out.”

[Flower7]

I wouldn’t still be with him. Why continue to date someone who doesn’t want you?

[Sugar_7]

Ignore him for a week so he can get his shit together and stop doing this or just leave his ass so he can think twice of his nasty behavior with me.

[loveslongnails]

That's one of the dumbest texts I've ever seen --- "LET ME break up with you?" LMAO You don't need someone's permission to break up with them. You just do it.

[bgreek]

It would bother me at 1st
But, the more something like this comes
The more i wouldn't give a damn
And just break up with the person and move on

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Wtf. There is no need to hang on to someone like that

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Id say good riddance with that nonsense! I am glad im with someone that actually wants me.

[MrOracle]

The first time she said it, we would be done. I don't play those games.

[pup4life]

I’d break up with them first cuz if there doing it everyday then there not worth it and now there just using that threat as a manipulative tactic

[Leonharted]

I'd let them go. No point in wasting my time and energy on someone who doesn't appreciate it.

[slatyb]

Break up with them the first time they tell me that. Who needs their drama?

[the_man57]

That's not cool if they're joking. If they're not, then tell him to actually talk to you if he wants to break up

[Andres77]

Tell them "no, I'm breaking up with you."
The one who cares least about the relationship who controls me from.

[EaterPeter]

Break up before they break up with you, feel un wanted. Let them know how you feel. You feel unwanted and hurt and if they are serious you want to move on.

[FunkyMonkee]

After the first couple times, I'd leave or kick them out!

[madgoat]

Not positive and they are not taking you seriously. So I accept their resignation.

[Anonymous]

If it happened more than once I'd be out of there.. and I'd only stay the first time if I was very much in love.

[Anonymous]

I'd say fine. The guy in the pic above is a pussy. He's asking for permission to break up. What a sub cuck.

[Wester1967]

I would front run the issue and dump them on their arse.

[Aryan5727]

For me it's everyday but still I hold my love and we hold each other. Spending time doesn't matter what matter is bonding.. if you have understanding good bonding stay or else leave

[Uptowngirl88]

You've posted about this man everyday. He doesn't Luke you move on

[AydenHazor]

Let them, never stay with someone that doesn't want to be with you

[Gia013100]

I’d let them go. I don’t wanna be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me.

[Hanrej]

Why the fuck does ha feel like his girl has to let him break up? Just leave.

[Twalli]

If someone wants to break up, the relationship is over.

[Amur8711]

Break up for real, obviously they don't really want to be tired down.

[Anonymous]

It would be over on the first try, so there won't be a second one.

[Starla1234]

I’d run from that toxic mess

[Dino_xHi]

Let them go, not worth your time

[Agape93]

Pissed off and block them.

[sheikalana]

I would let them go ffs.

[jace13]

Should have left day two of hearing it

[collie22]

i would be hurt enough to grant there wish

[ewok737]

I'd say sayanara round eye !!

[dragoblack]

Say, "ok, bye. I don't need to be manipulated"

[Paul09]

I'd break up for real?

[noohair]

Not stable in some way

[Joshua0213]

Id they said that everyday they'd be gone already

[melanieeeB]

break up lol

[Lori11]

lol,

[Jmmmfi4]

Ridiculously childish

[TazzyRazzy13]

Break up with them

[Alwayreckles93]

Blocked them

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Let him go.

[dudeinohio]

Dump them

[boobliker]

DUMP them!

[Joker_]

I would chuckle

[PeterSmith1983]

Break up yourself

[InferiorElegy]

I'd let them.

[Abdulwahh]

Leave them