The bottom line is "you have to be OK with it", both now and in the future because if he likes it, he will want more and if you later try to tell him no, it will be only luck on your part if he listens and does start sneaking it. Now that he has told you that, it is most likely to manifest itself that way anyway.
What you might do is let him try and see what happens. He may decide that he doesn't like it as much as he thought he would but if he does like it, than you have to decide for sure at that point if you are OK with it or not. Bisexual guys are much different than bisexual girls since for guys it is almost always just about getting off with not emotional attachment to worry about but Bi or lesbian girls normal have the emotional attachment.
Anyway, hope that helped and good luck Ms Emo!
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I am going to get some heat for this. But male sexuality isn’t as malleable as female sexuality. We usually go one way or another. Straight guys might have “bromances” where we idealize bad ass men. I was a 90s kid so I had a huge man crush on Brad Pitt (especially fight club Brad Pitt). But seriously the feeling of doing it physically with any man no matter how badass or attractive gives me a gag reflex.
Chances are your boyfriend is just a closet homosexual if he is thinking seriously about fooling around with another man. Nothing wrong with that. But the fact he said this seriously says ally. Also lots of straight guys joke about being gay but they will never will be. Ever. But that doesn’t sound like your boyfriend.
Well if he’s bi doesn't mean you have to end your relationship with him or even have an open relationship if you twi loves each other just help him explore his sexuality with you not with someone else its not healthy to bring other people into the relationship it may be the end of your relationship help him I don’t know if you two have sex but if you do maybe get a dildo or a strapon and try new stuff and then he’ll explore new things
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The relationship is already damaged if you have these kind of thoughts. It'll be best if you part ways and get yourself tested. He may not have been with a man sexually or romantically, but HIV/AIDS rates amongst gay and Bisexual men are not a laughing matter.
Why don’t you just use a strap and maybe that will satisfy his curiosity. You should get something back in the deal some maybe he does double pen on you.
We'll have you guy's talked about it? How does it make you feel? What is your gut instinct telling you? Does he make you happy? Do you see a the two of you in the future together?
Thats what this is for.
I don't know why he told u if u two are dating… and something must have happened if he hasn’t been with a guy before ….. I don't know tbh
If you want to marry him one day and really love him, don't leave him.
I understand his struggles. I wish I wasn't bisexual. It complicates things. And I've already been with guys now so there's no turning back. I hope you two can find a way through this happily.
That's up to you, but I don't think it's possible
just let him try it once or two
Depends how open your mind is, but I would say no
Why don't you guys try mmf threesome
nope
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