Eye contact and sex?

[Anonymous]

see? Have been with my man for 7 years and he still won't hold my gaze while having six, does this mean something or am is that not a thing... I have only had 3 serious relationships including this one and my exes made eye contact? Any advice? It kinda hurts...

[SecretsofKB]

Not every relationship I've been in has had eye contact. It depends on the person.

That being said, if it hurts you, you need to talk to him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel. That's the first step you need to take.

[Jasmine2121]

So your saying he doesn’t look back at you when you guys are having sex?

[Asker]

He will make eye contact for a split second sometimes but never for even 30 seconds.

[Jasmine2121]

mm I do the same thing with my boyfriend.. I get really shy and awkward if I stare back at my boyfriend while so I’ll look for a second and then look somewhere else.. it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing though. He probably gets shy don’t feel bad or think it’s you. maybe try talking to him about it and ask how he feels about that

[Asker]

Thank you! That is great advice!

[Anonymous]

My guess is your first boyfriend was in high school