( I’m 21 by the way i made a mistake) I always do this test on guys i’m talking to because I think it says a lot about someone’s maturity & how sweet they are. So when i’m cuddling with a guy after a while of kissing or whatever I pretend to fall asleep on them & then do that little “ body jerk” & wake up 5 minutes later lol. (this happened over the past months i’m currently only talking to boy #3 ) Boy 1: noticed i was falling asleep & was moving a bit so i opened my eyes & we started kissing again. boy 2: turned his face towards me so i just woke up & we started talking. boy 3: didn’t move & once I did the fake body jerk & woke up he grabbed me in tight to fall asleep on him. & boy # 3 is mature and caring, the other guys were sweet but i could tell we’re very materialistic & insecure..
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Also I have 3 brothers I know guys will be guys but still If i were a guy I would know better and be on her good even more to where she wakes up and is like aww he let me sleep and didn’t care lol
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Ok obviously this test doesn’t define who a guy is. I literally just added why I thought the other guys weren’t for me that’s it, just to add unnecessary detail i dont know.
Should every girl do this fake sleep test on a guy? & guys what would you do?
Everything defines who or what kind of a person they are. Don't feel embarrassed or bullied into withdrawing what you've said.
That said, when I was young, there was a daughter of one of my mom's boyfriends who went on a road trip with us. I was quite smitten with her. She could tell. While a couple years younger than me (16 & 14), she was quite mature for her age. She and my sister were brats teasing me remorsely. Anyway, on the ride back, at one point, she fell asleep, then shifted to rest her head on my shoulder. I was a trifle shocked, so my older sister who sat on her other side, was going to nudge her and I quietly shook my head. I just sat still, and she slept a good long while like that. When she woke, she apologized but I just said it was okay. It was the first time a girl showed an interest with me and felt that comfortable around me. She found several reasons to visit her father and thereby me too. We became fast friends, and while we never declared each other boyfriend/girlfriend, there was a ton of subtext. Our parents broke up a couple years later and they moved away. I tried to stay connected with her, but we spoke less and less especially when she went to college.
I found out she got married several years later. And years after that, through the internet, I reached out to her. Her husband was frightfully jealous when he found out who I was, so apparently, she spoke rather highly of me, and often.
What happens if I masturbate? Do I get the secret passage to keeper for life?
The ironic thing about this is if she just started doing that then she would be 100% a keeper. Also another great thing about this been there done that sorta but that's a whole story for a different day.
Anyway if I am cuddling with a girl and fall asleep I am very sensitive to been woken up so I would notice and cuddle in more. It can become a weird problem though cause like if she is going to the toilet at night It will wake me up when I want to be asleep and i cannot go back to sleep until we are cuddling again.
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My mind is all over the place due to this comment lol. 1. why would you masturbate on the second date what if she wakes up.. just go to the bathroom if you have to so badly aha.. 2. why would she be a keeper im confused? 3. Also the question for guys was what would you do if the girl you were talking to fell asleep not you. not that genders matters i’m just trying to see something
My mind was all over the placing answering this honestly. 1. I mean.. in the bathroom you wouldn't be in presence of the one who made you so and that's kinda the hot part I would of thought if your just in the bathroom by yourself not that fun plus cold I would bet. Hmm no one said anything about the 2nd date? 2. Because that would be hot and kinda would be happy about her been comfortable and bold enough to do that. 3. Why would I not fall asleep with her? If she goes to sleep I am gonna be like my bedtime to time for a great snuggly sleep.
Bah, you were just hoping he would cop a feel while you were asleep. Maybe some will think you are too tired and leave so you can get your rest. Others would think that you apparently think they were boring to the point that they put you to sleep. Maybe all three are correct?
LOL it’s just a little 5 min game not “test” it’s doesn’t define anyone chill. if you can’t let the person you’re interested in sleep peacefully on you then i dont know what to say..
I'm glad u shared this and appreciate your honesty. Most women deny that they play games and It's ironic how many of the guys spend their time criticizing in the comments instead of understanding that you're providing another example of how womens actions are different from their words. Just out of curiosity. If in this test the guy just got up and went home what would you do?
Guess what... I know about this stupid little game, and it speaks to your immaturity, and not a guy's maturity or sweetness. If you played it on me, you'd be escorted out the door after your fake wake up. The last thing I need in my world are little girls playing stupid little games, ms anonymous.
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i dont play tricks on guys 24/7 lol.. and i can fake sleep pretty well i start lightly snoring after a few minutes and let my body sink into the person a little lol so i doubt you would know but okay
Women cry, beg, scream and plead for a guy who will be "honest" with them, and what do you do in return? A stupid little game. A test, that in the scheme of things, means absolutely nothing. But if you'd do this, what else would you do? Not the kind of woman I want.
I wouldn't do a lot. my 2 exs are begging for me back because i’m wife material.. this little test doesn’t define who i am just like It doesn’t define who the guy is. but get mad over something little like there aren’t more days to come lol..
So there's no irony that you have "ex's" begging you to come back because you're "wife material"? They're ex's. Hmm... I have news for you. EVERY little thing you do says something about who you are. Maybe it doesn't "define" you, but it's one of the spices in the mix. My point is still the same - women CRY for a man who won't play games with them, yet here you are rationalizing one that's ok for a woman to play, and one that proves nothing at that.
i obviously broke up with them since i’m the one bringing it up. also you don’t know the situation but i’ll tell you this i ended on good terms with both of them. and playing games and doing this one little experiment is different. if you can’t handle someone you’re interested in actually falling asleep then so be it. you act like i’m asking men for money and playing hardcore games lol.
You are completely missing the point. Completely. You're not falling asleep, you're pretending to fall asleep. You're being fake. THAT'S the point. You want a relationship based on honesty? Don't play games, not even little ones. It's not the size of the game, it's your foolish intent.
you’re scaring me at how triggered you are over a situation like this 😂.. i know exactly what you’re saying but it’s not that big of a deal so i could careless to apologize or even fake an apology. good day
I don't need your apology. You posted a question, I gave you my opinion. I feel strongly about it, and you think it's trivial, so you don't like that and use the ever so popular, yet juvenile term "triggered" because someone strongly disagrees with you. My answer again is "no, - no girl should do your fake sleep test." If you're looking for 100% agreement on any question you post, you're going be a very disappointed girl.
oh i have a apologized @spartan55 i’m human not a robot. i just haven’t to any stranger over the internet who is not “triggered” even though he was attacking me lol but who strongly disagrees with someone who pretends to fall asleep for 5 mins and then wakes up.
*eyeroll* talk about "triggered" (your word). Again you fail to see the point. I'm attacking an idea - which is the one where women, especially on here, consistently complain about men who play games of any kind, and long for a man who doesn't. Then along comes "should every girl do a fake sleep test... yada, yada". Smh. So again, no. Be real. Don't fake anything. Is your boyfriend on here too and that's why you went anonymous? haha
It actually gets uncomfortable when someone is laying on you. Especially if you aren’t positioned correctly. So whatever each person did doesn’t mean anything. Their intentions turned to word are backed by their actions that should be the only thing you look for.
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I’m very tiny and cuddle a lot so I know i wasn't positioned wrongly
i know i literally said it doesn’t define who a guy is it’s just a fun little test to see what they would do at that moment. let the person they’re interested in sleep peacefully in they’re arms or no
Any type of game played (including this one) is immature. If I knew this was happening I would tell her to quit testing me. I hate being tested by a girl. If there is an issue, say something. If a girl plays a small game like this, what's to stop her from putting me to other stupid tests? I want a relationship with trust and honesty, not games and tests.
This happened with a girl I really liked while we were watching TV. She fell asleep for about 20 minutes and I thought it was so cute that she trusted me enough to fall asleep on my lap. She was embarrassed when I woke her up because my leg was falling asleep. Lol she was like why did uou let me do that? I never did express to her how cute I thought that was. Lol
1. Test makes no sense, any guy would at some point do all 3, as well as other outcomes.
2. Most people can tell if you are faking sleep about half the time.
3. Materialistic means something else entirely.
4. None of those outcomes are immature responses.
5. A real couple doesn't play mind games, and enjoys being woken up by their SO for sexual attention.
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I'm a bit surprised guy 3 is the "winner", because that's exactly how i would behave in a situation like that. I guess it's good to know that i would pass this test, even tho i would be a bit annoyed if i found out it was a test..
This test is just manipulating by the way.. and if you keep "testing" guys like this, it won't end well. I don't think there is a single guy who likes to be constantly tested/manipulated like this. He won't trust you after a while if you keep doing this, he may start to resent you even.
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Also i don't really see what was wrong with the other two guys.
This is a great post for guys to read. This is the same type of woman who would then claim she's not into game playing. Women are always testing and guys need to 1. Understand relationships are a game to women 2. Make sure you are constantly testing your women
@Tornado92 Honestly there is little maturity difference between women age 16-65. Point is you need to understand that women will constantly test you, so you need to ge prepared to do the same.
@Tornado92 W/o knowing your situation it's impossible to give u specifics just know when you think she's playing games she probably is. More importantly though is you need to be constantly testing your women. Have respect for yourself and make sure you're only giving your time to women who prove they're worthy of it.
You are childish. Making irrelevant conclusions out of a little experiment.
Yeah right, now ask me what my favorite color is and I'll say it's red. What you're gonna do? Tell me i'm a bloody murderer or a communist? 🤦♀️ I'd consider dumping you over literal stupidity. And it's not even about differences of opinions or music taste or interests.
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It doesn’t define someone but like why else wouldn’t you let the person your interested in fall asleep on peacefully on you.. that’s selfish
Clearly you are not ready or mature to be in a relationship. Grow up this is the real world you're 21 not 13 . Only a 13 year old would do that. How about you learn to clean the house or cook.
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oh lord by looking at your questions you’ve been married and all at such a young age. also i can do both. but anyway that’s sad no one should be devoted to someone at such a young and then divorced. focus on you sweetie
Asker wow seriously you are sexting with a man that could be married and is 10 years older then you. That says so much about you. You have no self respect for your self. Clearly you are not ready for a relationship. I am amazed how you young woman are gold digger and just want older guys to pay your bills.
Just so you know for younger sluts like yourself is the reason why my marriage endedmy ex-husband choose a stupid immature young 20 year old gold digger. Why can't you woman just have some respect? Just like this turd here 30 year d choosing younger woman disgusting! I'm out of here.
you don’t have the mentality of of 29 year old lol i wouldn’t be doing grown women stuff then trying to harass someone years younger than you and call them a slut lol… maybe you should reflect on yourself honey & do some research on this guy because he literally just asked a question about his girlfriend and is now being a whore flirting with me because i’m young and supposedly hot in his weird imagination
That's what you are a slut. I don't what you think. This disgusting 30 year old sexting with you instead of dating a beautiful mature woman his own age. Unlike you being a gold digger chasing after older man Grow up child! So does your 30 year old guy friend with benefits if that's what he is to you have some grown up to do.
Y’all are not grown and need mental help 😂😂😂😂 this is what y’all’s future kids will think a good role model is.. yeah right. we’ll let me be the mature one shockingly and stop replying to you two shockingly grown adults & give y’all something else to do that’s mature. good day.
Look if the two of you are fuck buddies , I don't care. Just so you know that is a huge sin against God to be having sex outside of marriage this is why you must wait to have sex until marriage thier wouldn't be that many sluts around this evil world. Little girl you better repent from your sin's.
Asker oh you are so mature yeah right I bet mommy an daddy still pay your phone and car bill. You think you know everything when you are fucking every man that crosses your path. You will not always be 21 forever. Your trash.
I don't understand what you are testing. What are they supposed to do or not do? I don't even understand what you are trying to find out. All the guys basically keep laying there... what are you learning from that?
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nothing comes out of it. it’s just the fact that it’s rude that you can’t let the person your interested in fall asleep on you peacefully.
What is the purpose of this ridiculous test? It literally tells you nothing. Sounds like you fool around with too many guys, you're asking for problems
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at this point i’m just going to copy & past this. The test just plays a little role to see if the guy most likely enjoying you’re presence enough to let you sleep peacefully in his arms & his maturity
Bro I think she's cute unlocked me woman my age all turn into Karen's and want us to take life seriously. A young hottie like her she is awesome bro. All woman my age complain because I play video games and most want full attention.
please stop acting like @spartan55 and commenting a lot.. it’s odd. & yes the test seems childish like most older women wouldn’t do it. it’s literally just a 5 min “test” stop glorifying it it’s creeping me out.. 😂😂
nope people are getting weirder and weird. i did a childish test and attracted old adults who are single and crazy & people who keep asking the same question to bully me so you happy?
@asker Single? Really? You are making assumptions again, and making yourself look stupid. You lie, you make shit up, you run shit tests on guys... what's not to like?
No. I don't think it proves anything? A man can turn out to be an ass, but still allow cuddles and for you to sleep on him. Sounds dumb.
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i know i literally said it doesn’t define who a guy is it’s just a fun little test to see what they would do at that moment. let the person they’re interested in sleep peacefully in they’re arms or no.
I've never done this as a test, but I have fallen asleep with my boyfriend before, and I can tell he is a real gentleman because every time I wake up he just rubs my arm or plays with my hair.
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