If you are preparing to go to an event to which your SO was invited, do you dress to please your SO or yourself? (Page 2)

[ItsMeElliana]

I'd love to wear something that pleases my S. O, and is appropriate enough for me to be comfortable in it

[AdithyaR]

I've never had an SO but I'd dress according to the event. I'd ask my SO how I'd be expected to dress and I'd do that, with maybe a touch of my own style cause I need a bit of myself in it.

[pleasestopthis]

Somewhere in the middle. I'd pick something I like but also ask for his opinion on my outfit, the idea is to wear something that looks good and that doesn't reflect badly on my partner.

[Andres77]

I'll dress to compliment my wife. It's her professional event so I'd dress in a way to make her look good, to be supportive.
She'd do the same for me.

[slatyb]

I'm happy to wear whatever my wife prefers. She dresses for me all the time.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I dress to impress so my girl feels like she has a trophy boyfriend

[TwinkleLily5]

Yourself but be respectful of your significant other, like not dressing to provocative

[luvstoned4him]

I voted C but usually I dress appropriate and for occasions so my dressing shouldn't be a problem

[RedStiletto88]

How I dress reflects both of us so I keep that in mind with what I wear.

[Citizenkirk]

I would want my SO too feel comfortable inviting me too thier event 😉.

[Massageman]

I will generally dress to fit the situation, which is typically at least as "formal" as my wife will be dressing.

[amyisme]

It's a important event for him I want him it be happy and inpressed

[Likes2drive]

I try to make them happy but I don’t want to look or feel uncomfortable either so hopefully it’s something we both are comfortable with

[douride2]

I always dress for comfort & to please myself. I always dress appropriate for the event though.

[Ninania]

I dress for me. If he likes it too, that's definitely a bonus.

[Loveisgirthy]

Please both when possible. But I'd go more for pleasing her if she also did the same for me.

[JohnQue74]

I usually dress better than my SO. I try a little to get her to occasionally wear something other than jeans and t-shirts.

[cookiecrusher]

As a man 100% for yourself.
But a man also knows when to be classy.

[FreyaRed]

My clothes, my body, my business.

[OlderAndWiser]

And if he dresses in a way that is embarrassing to you, that is none of your business? Aren't relationships all about you becoming someone else's "business?"

[FreyaRed]

>"And if he dresses in a way that is embarrassing to you, that is none of your business?"
I can only hope he is smart enough to learn from his mistake if reaction of others isn't favorable to his outfit. I'm not his mother to pick pants and t-shirts for him.

>"Aren't relationships all about you becoming someone else's "business?"
Well, if he asks I will give him my honest opinion. Asking isn't painful and replies aren't always pointless.

[OlderAndWiser]

Relationships are much smoother when you learn from communication instead of trial and error.

[FreyaRed]

On the other hand, arguing just because of clothes isn't smart.
If I can't expect from my partner a little bit self-criticism I don't think such relationship will have a future.

[Mediterraneansoul]

Everyone who says they dress for themselves is a liar lol