I will not let my wishes be unsaid because I dearly yearn for it. I want to meet a girl who is a genuienly decent person, who has flaws but who acknowledge them honestly and do not let them define her. Someone among billions of people who feel fake, who feels real. I want to meet a girl who isn't afraid of telling me just how much she loves me as often as she wants to, who doesn't shy away from caring even for the smallest and silliest things. A girl with whom I can talk to about anything and everything, who is funny and laid back and equally capable of being serious when the situation calls for it. A girl I can trust with my darkest confessions, a girl who is intelligent enough to have complex discussions with, and wise enough to let life be simple at times. A girl who isn't eager to argue but quick to find solutions and doesn't delight in saying anything hurtful even if she at the moment might be cross with me. A girl I can share a passionate, genuine, down to earth, playful, wild love with.
I want all of this because this is how I plan to be, and want to be with her. But the more I see of the world today it seems to be quite a rarity. I don't know why I'm like this all of a sudden, I'm feeling some certain way tonight and felt like airing some deep stuff.
Is there anything you want from a relationship/marriage which is left unsaid/not pursued because you deem it unrealistic?
Umm,…I know I want a nice guy in a relationship. But I settle with whatever, because of how I was raised. And what I still witness from my parents marriage (which most of the time is not pleasant. Too many arguments and yelling.) I don’t know. I want respect and kindness, but I’m not used to respect and kindness, which makes me question and test the person of my emotions and flaws.
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