Is there anything you want from a relationship/marriage which is left unsaid/not pursued because you deem it unrealistic?

[Northernlights25]

I will not let my wishes be unsaid because I dearly yearn for it. I want to meet a girl who is a genuienly decent person, who has flaws but who acknowledge them honestly and do not let them define her. Someone among billions of people who feel fake, who feels real. I want to meet a girl who isn't afraid of telling me just how much she loves me as often as she wants to, who doesn't shy away from caring even for the smallest and silliest things. A girl with whom I can talk to about anything and everything, who is funny and laid back and equally capable of being serious when the situation calls for it. A girl I can trust with my darkest confessions, a girl who is intelligent enough to have complex discussions with, and wise enough to let life be simple at times. A girl who isn't eager to argue but quick to find solutions and doesn't delight in saying anything hurtful even if she at the moment might be cross with me. A girl I can share a passionate, genuine, down to earth, playful, wild love with.

I want all of this because this is how I plan to be, and want to be with her. But the more I see of the world today it seems to be quite a rarity. I don't know why I'm like this all of a sudden, I'm feeling some certain way tonight and felt like airing some deep stuff.

[FictionalCharacter]

Wow. That’s poetry.

Umm,…I know I want a nice guy in a relationship. But I settle with whatever, because of how I was raised. And what I still witness from my parents marriage (which most of the time is not pleasant. Too many arguments and yelling.) I don’t know. I want respect and kindness, but I’m not used to respect and kindness, which makes me question and test the person of my emotions and flaws.

[DizzyDesii]

I know people hate my list of standards because it seems “long” but theyre all realistic so im not changing em

[Northernlights25]

Good for you.

[DizzyDesii]

I think people who dislike them are guys that could never meet them or girls who wish they actually had standards 🤷‍♀️

[Chlo3_2001]

Travel the world. When possible. 🌎 🗺 you never know who or what you'll see out there amd it sounds like you seem very open-minded. 🥰

[Northernlights25]

I do have the intention to travel when covid dies down 😋

[Chlo3_2001]

Anywhere in particular? 😊

[Northernlights25]

Always wanted to see Rome. Paris is quite available from my city actually. Cheap flights that go regularly. Oh and Austria, and Israel.

[Chlo3_2001]

They all sound amazing. I'm pretty far away in Australia but I would like to see Europe, the UK, Canada, New Zealand and Japan.

[Northernlights25]

UK is awesome too. I've been to London a few times and the English countryside, living in Sweden it too is very cheap to travel to.

[Chlo3_2001]

Oh wow Sweden! Lovely! We have a few Swedish international students here.

[Northernlights25]

Heey say hi to them for me haha!

[Chlo3_2001]

I shall! The ones I know are from Gothenburg.

[Northernlights25]

No way? That's like 2-3 hours from my home. I might even know them.

[jahaims]

Nope.