I need help, my girlfriend has been cheating on me for months?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been together for quite a while now and I knew she has been cheating on me because I’ve caught her red handed twice and have noticed a change in her behaviour over the last few years.

She says she loves me but continues to cheat on me. She knows I know she is cheating and still won’t stop. I love her so much and don’t want to lose her but I’m also unsure as to what I should do.

We haven’t had sex together in months. The most we ever do is oral and it’s usually just me giving her oral as she is too tired to do anything for me.

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Can anyone help me

[TonyV]

You sad sad spinless little simp. I see you are lost in the sauce ignoring the advice here and the reality of your situation.

First of all by cheating you mean she's fucking other guys rights? Is it girls?

Dude like everyone else said, you should dump her, if the only "sex" you to have anymore is you eating her out, that's pathetic, she is literally using you like a sex toy, if she's to "tired" to even give ypu a blowjob you need to ditch the using selfish bitch.

I don't know what to do to make you see she is toxic, been there, i liked a girl that didn't give a shit about me, I can tell she don't respect you, but you just keep saying you "love" her, get over your love and dump the bitch.

There is no fixing this, she's out there fucking so many people other than you that she literally has no energy left for you. You are nothing but a clit toy and free place to stay to her, she's using you.

[Anonymous]

No woman is attracted to a man that has no self respect. She knows that you still being with her despite her cheating means you have low self esteem, no self respect, a scarcity mindset and no boundaries. It's why she is not having sex with you, but will accept oral. However, you should be careful what you are allowing in your mouth since she may have another man's ejaculate down there. This is the reality.

Love has nothing to do with any form of betrayal, cheating or dysfunction. You've confused lust with love. It seems you are on a path of pain thus nothing said here may be able to help but maybe it will help someone else.

[rini02]

Say her nothing and dump her. Like leave her straight away and avoid her totally. Start your life afresh. For emotional and mental wellbeing you can ask help from trust worthy people who actually care about you. Make her your past and don't look back at it. Life has taught you a lot so take it optimistically and move on with positivity. Don't get into any kind of relationship for few months or maybe a year coz your mind and soul need rest and they need to heal up. Can do yoga and meditation which can really help you to cope up with negativity.
Have faith and never lose hope. 😊

[Vesuvius87]

Who cares about the so called ''great sex'' and her not putting out anymore; that's pure worthless lustful moments people confused for love.. what else is there besides that? Work on your own self-esteem and figure out why you continue accepting horrible treatment. Make her your ex girlfriend, seek a psychologist afterwards and go single afterwards; take a break from dates.

[Emiliamazing]

You’ve got to say goodbye. If you can develop feelings for someone that treats you this way, you can develop even stronger feelings for someone that actually loves you and doesn’t cheat on you.

[IMuser]

Before love comes respect. And trust me, she lost it for you otherwise you won't get cheated on

You have two options: be a cuckold or be bold (and kick her out of your life. Fuck love, gain respect)

[Asker]

What the hell is a cuckold and I’d never break up with her, I love her.

[IMuser]

Cuckold is basically your girlfriend/wife fucking others with your consent (please Google it)

You love her but she doesn't (her actions and words do not match). Maybe you have cuckold tendencies and it's fine, but be honest about what you want. Do you want her to cheat?

[Asker]

I don’t want her to cheat but I’d never break up with her for it

[IMuser]

What will you lose if you breakup? What will you do if she never listens to you?

[Buntyp]

Wake up and smell the... well...
Stand up and get the f outta there. Why do you settle for such a miserable situation?

[Asker]

I have been with her for quite a while now and I love her so much. It may seem weird but I know despite everything she has done and does, she loves me too but I would prefer her not to cheat

[EmmaMary]

Well as you're not accepting anyone else's advice, then I shan't waste my time giving you mine.

[Asker]

I’m asking for solutions that doesn’t involve people telling me she doesn’t love me or to break up with her. I should have made that clearer in my question

[EmmaMary]

I'm completely unable to offer any other advice than what others have already giving you... Sorry.

[Asker]

No worries, thanks anyway.

[sheikalana]

the only thing you need to go is break up with your girlfriend. love yourself a bit more there are plenty of good women out there.

[exitseven]

Dump her and find somebody else. This will never make you happy.

[Nagatoro]

Just leave her and move on. She's more than likely never gonna stop if you keep allowing it.

[Anonymous]

So you caught her twice, but you haven't dumped her? That's on you dude. Man up and get rid of her.

[Asker]

How so? I love her and I know she loves me or else she would have left me

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, a cheater doesn’t love you.

[Anonymous]

Well if you want to be with her and she won't stop the only thing left to do is just to get her permission to do it

[Asker]

I’ve asked her about this and she isn’t keen because she knows it’ll hurt me

[Opinion Owner]

So then why does she keep cheating

[Asker]

I wish I knew. I don’t know, she never sleeps with me but seems to always do it elsewhere.

[Opinion Owner]

And how do you feel about it

[Asker]

It makes me sad but I know she loves me

[Opinion Owner]

Does she not enjoy sex with you

[Asker]

We haven’t had sex in months because she is always tired but I’d say I’m not the best

[Opinion Owner]

How often does she have insects with others

[Asker]

I don’t know but I’ve caught her twice.

[Opinion Owner]

What did you say when you got her

[Asker]

Why all these questions I just want help

[Opinion Owner]

Just getting more information to be able to give an opinion. Maybe you guys could have an open relationship

[SnakeBoop]

Then make her an ex and get someone of value

[Asker]

But I love her and I know she loves me. She always makes sure I know how much she loves me because she knows that she hurts me when she does what she does. It’s all so confusing.

[SnakeBoop]

She doesn't love you.
If you want to act like a retard that's on you. You keeping trash for a girlfriend is on you.

[Asker]

She does love me, I know she does.

[SnakeBoop]

Whatever troll.

[Asker]

It’s not a troll question, but think whatever you want. I take your opinion on board but you’re wrong about her not loving me.

[SnakeBoop]

🤣🤣🤣 then you really are a moronic troll.
@EmmaMary someone wants your award lmao

[EmmaMary]

@SnakeBoop

I'm so sorry to tell you that I have been forbidden by the "Gold Cap Brigade" to give any more awards, but must simply report anything I consider Spamming/Trolling etc... Which will be a complete and utter waste of time as they'll simply reinstate them.

I do believe some pathetic lowlife moron reported me the day before yesterday.

[SnakeBoop]

@EmmaMary ah, of course they did. but hey, I guess with your permission I can give out the awards lmao XD

[EmmaMary]

@SnakeBoop

Please do go right ahead, and continue to so in future on my behalf... Thank you.

[Anonymous]

What help do you need? You are a cuckold for being with a cheating girlfriend and not dumping her after the first time.

[Asker]

I’m not a cuckold

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yes, you are. It ain't hard to decipher. You keep a cheating girlfriend. Simple as that.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you 2 losers deserve each other.

[Asker]

Why would you say that

[Opinion Owner]

Any fool that would put up with his/her partner repeatedly cheating on then is an idiot. Throw the bitch out you fool. She obviously doesn't love you.