Spamming my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Today I had an anxiety attack about some family issues and starting a new job. He said he’s call me but then got busy doing some chores around the house & never ended up calling me. As I started to get more and more anxious I ended up calling him and bunch and spam texting him about calling me and my anxiety’s I truly feel bad and have said that in texts, It was just an emergency and I needed him at that moment. Do you think he’ll be mad to wake up to my spam? All the messages were nice and asking for help, not shitting on him for not answering!

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+1 y

I figured it would not be bad, due to the fact that it was an emergency about an anxiety attack. I was never mad that he didn't answer, I was just saying please call me, im not doing well. Then I was explaining everything going on in my head

[StrawberryShake]

I used to do this every so often when I was unstable. My boyfriend was always very kind and patient. I'm glad I'm over that phase now

[one1wild00]

It would anoy me at first, then I'd see what happened.

[Asker]

All of the text messages were about the anxiety attack. I even sent a text saying I know I am spamming you and im so sorry, I just really needed you comfort for this. Im aware it was a bit much, I just did not know what to do because I only wanted him in that situation.

[one1wild00]

Soon as he gets up given he sees it and given you two have a relationship strong enough where he could come over any time day or night I'm sure he would be there no matter what time it is. - Least that would be me if you were in driving range like it sounds like you are with him.

[Asker]

We are long distance actually, typically he does just pass out. I never have thought anything about why he wasn answering, it was more just like here's whats going on please help. He typically would not get mad, I just am super in my head about it - as im still a bit anxious lol

[one1wild00]

I'm sure he would be concerned once he realized. If it helps you, I've learned to box up a lot of my anxieties and shove them into a dark corner behind a locked door in my mind. I'm not saying the anxieties is not real, as I'm sure it is but this might help.

[spartan55]

How often do these episodes occur?

[Anonymous]

Yes, that would annoy me.

[Asker]

Even if it was bc of an anxiety attack & it was an emergency, its not like I spammed him bc I was mad or anything

[Iron_Man]

Hmmmm what’s next

[Asker]

what do you mean

[Iron_Man]

Break up or remain upset

[Asker]

thats not really what im talking about. Im worried if hell be upset from the spam. I am not upset, I was just going through a rough time

[Iron_Man]

Don’t worry about that you’re giving In to him And it shows