My partner and i have been together for nearly 4 years, we have been living together for 2 and a half years. Our relationship is great, we mostly vibe together, game together, drink together, go out occasionally and have fun. Previously, in the past, he has drunkly asked me for marriage. I didn't take seriously, since he was drunk, in which he was upset. There was no ring, hence why i thought it a joke. This happened about a year ago, it was just after we moved into our new apartment complex.
during that year, one of his siblings got married, him and i had a unplanned pregnancy (which ended with me miscarrying), recently. His friend messaged him, in regards to a surprise proposal, he is planning on doing to his partner this weekend, sent photos of rings etc.
my partner and i caught up with his dad a few nights ago, at the pub. Where my partner mentioned their proposal to him, when my partner walked off, his dad asked me, when it was our turn. I just shrugged, its not that big of a deal really.
earlier my partner mentioned their proposal plans again to me (i lowkey think he might be jealous, im not sure), i said “i would, but the ring i want to get is 5k and its only that, cause it will only be 1 of it and will be custom made, so no one else will have one and it will mean a great deal to me”. he then said “no, thats stupid and too much money”, Basically after that, i shut him down whenever he mentioned his friends proposal. I mean, congratulations to them, but I seriously do not care and i feel like my partner is only upsetting himself, by continuing to talk about it.
a few of his family members and friends always say to him (around me) “when are yous going to try again for a baby?”, “when are yous getting engaged and married, yous have been together for a while”. Its annoying, but i dont say anything. But this whole thing with my partner, I don't know what to do with him acting like this
during that year, one of his siblings got married, him and i had a unplanned pregnancy (which ended with me miscarrying), recently. His friend messaged him, in regards to a surprise proposal, he is planning on doing to his partner this weekend, sent photos of rings etc.
my partner and i caught up with his dad a few nights ago, at the pub. Where my partner mentioned their proposal to him, when my partner walked off, his dad asked me, when it was our turn. I just shrugged, its not that big of a deal really.
earlier my partner mentioned their proposal plans again to me (i lowkey think he might be jealous, im not sure), i said “i would, but the ring i want to get is 5k and its only that, cause it will only be 1 of it and will be custom made, so no one else will have one and it will mean a great deal to me”. he then said “no, thats stupid and too much money”, Basically after that, i shut him down whenever he mentioned his friends proposal. I mean, congratulations to them, but I seriously do not care and i feel like my partner is only upsetting himself, by continuing to talk about it.
a few of his family members and friends always say to him (around me) “when are yous going to try again for a baby?”, “when are yous getting engaged and married, yous have been together for a while”. Its annoying, but i dont say anything. But this whole thing with my partner, I don't know what to do with him acting like this
