My fiance's 15 year old daughter slaps and calls me hurtful things to my face, yet he doesn't punish her. How can I approach this situation? (Page 2)
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You should move back out and end up this relationship because probably I would. His daughter is abusing you and your fiance has no intention to stop this and it's terrible. He should've effort for you two to get along better. It's not healthy. You talk with him and say you're very uncomfortable with this either he fix this or there is no point for you to bear this
You are in an impossible situation. First you are dealing with a 5 year old. The age where nothing is quite right. Second moving in you are in that invisible space between her mother and father, in her eyes you are the cause of their breakup. Her father and her need to work out this problem or you need to move on. Sorry.
Ummm he's buggin. If that's ur fiancé and he truly cares for you or at least respects you he needs to be able to control his child. She don't need to like you but damn the respect should be there. Slapping you like it's nothing go crazy. He needs to do better for the sake of your relationship.
There is nothing you can do other than when she hit you. you punch her lights out and see if your true love says anything and the bitch brat stops and acts normal. Next is you say bye bye he will not change and daddy's little girl will still be a cunt. Marrying into that you will always second string. If you do not get this fixed before you marry you will be in divorce court very shortly thereafter.
Are you fucking serious? Tell your fiance to discipline her daughter and get her counseling asap. She's way too old to behave like this and it has to be difficult for you to remain calm.
If he isn't down for that, he isn't down for protecting you, I'd hold off the wedding until you're in a safe environment.
You are 18 to 24 and you are involved with a guy with a 15 year old daughter that physically abuses you. And you think that you can change the dynamics so it won't happen? I don't think that you can do anything but get out. This is a disaster waiting for a made for TV movie.
If you want her to stop hitting you, lean aikido. I can block most hits, as long as I see it coming. She'll still try but it won't work. My guess is she is pissed at him for dating someone young enough to be her sister. You're enabling it to be with you
Tell him if he doesn't punish her, you'll punish him. Then let him work out for himself what exactly that means!
The world will then be your oyster.
You can improve the situation by marrying someone else who doesn't have an abusive 15-year-old daughter who needs fatherly guidance and discipline. I feel sorry for you.
By ending the engagement. You didn't crack down on the smaller things that led to this point. You need to start fresh and leave this relationship.
Unless the sex is that fantastic get out of the relationship and move out. If you stay in that type of situation at some point you are going to break (I know I would) and slap the little bitch back.
That is when the shit would really hit the fan. GET OUT while you can.
Tell him that you don’t want to live there with his evil spawn of a child until he learns how to discipline her. The fact that he knows she physically puts her hands on you but doesn’t defend you is pathetic of him tbh.
She never met her mom and now a woman 7 years older than her is fucking her dad. Yea I’d be pissed too
Sounds like marrying into this situation would be a bad idea. It would be best to cut ties with this family before things become legally binding.
If she’s assaulting you, you need to tell her father that either he can discipline her or officer friendly can it’s his call.
He has zero control. She is a child with free rein. Neither have respect for you. Bad mix.
You need to have a Heart to Heart talk with your fiance'. He has to do something, or maybe you need to give him an ultimatum.
If he doesn't step in, she will never stop and you won't feel comfortable.
You need to fight back. My older sister had a similar problem so my cousin and I jumped her step daughter in the toilet at school. She had manners after that.
You are being physically abused. It's not safe for you there. Move back out.
Sounds like time to get dis-engaged. You don't need to put up with this crap. Move out, even if you have to stay temporarily with a friend or relative, and let him know why.