Staying in shape for your partner is being considerate. Not only am I making an effort to be as aesthetically pleasing as possible for her, but I’m also ensuring I live as long as possible and stay as physically capable as possible to look after her
I gained almost 100 pounds since I met my boyfriend 3 years ago and he’s very upset he stayed in shape for me but I didn’t
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You don't have to be a gym rat. But you OWE it to not just your partner but all the people who love you to take care of yourself. Not every person can be skinny. But everyone can work towards good health.
well it dosen't really have to be for your partner but yourself. to keep fit and healthy is your responsibility. your partner will love you for your efforts made.
It doesn't have to be, but the question is should you for your partner. Like if you're letting it go, should you for the sake of your partner, get yourself back in shape?
A lot of people are just making moralistic stances that it should be for yourself. But let's be honest a lot of people aren't doing it for themselves. They're just fat.
I'm more so saying do you owe something to your partner in regards to your Fitness? Should you do it for them if you're not already fit?
your right on that so what happens when your partner is not there to push you to share up? just get fatty lol. but i think they should keep fit for their own health. its their health in risk not the partner.
They should do it for their health, but a lot of people don't. They just let themselves go and end up being unhealthy. If we promote the moralistic stance and that isn't working...
Just oh well lol? They have no responsibility to their partner at all? To me it's odd
So we can at the very least agree that there is a standard that they should maintain in the form of a responsibility to their partner with regards to the personal fitness. Perhaps for you anything short of diabetes LOL
Oh yeah, I know a few guys who got in shape specifically because they were walking down the street with their girl and saw the lust she had in her eyes for guys who are in really good shape and they noticed that their girl never looked at them with that same look of lust
So they turned around and got ripped. Suddenly their girl was looking at them the same way she was looking at other dudes. To me there's so many reasons to be in shape, some for you some for your partner.
But for a lot of people the reasons for them self is not enough for them to take action. For a lot of people they genuinely will not do something just because it's good for them, they'll do it to get away from Pain they'll do it to help somebody else, will do it for something outside of themselves
People seem to have this idea that it is morally better to do something for yourself or don't do it at all, rather than doing it because you should regardless of what your motivation is
As a man I feel like you should always have a level of physical fitness so that you can physically defend your woman, while also maintaining that physical attraction
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NOPE! You stay in shape for YOU! I could spend a long time saying why this is. Just know that life is so much easier if you take care of your body!
Yes for the same reason you shouldn’t commit suicide your life isn’t just about you
We're either in shape together
Or we're not together.
Staying in shape for your partner is being considerate. Not only am I making an effort to be as aesthetically pleasing as possible for her, but I’m also ensuring I live as long as possible and stay as physically capable as possible to look after her
I gained almost 100 pounds since I met my boyfriend 3 years ago and he’s very upset he stayed in shape for me but I didn’t
You don't have to be a gym rat. But you OWE it to not just your partner but all the people who love you to take care of yourself. Not every person can be skinny. But everyone can work towards good health.
well it dosen't really have to be for your partner but yourself. to keep fit and healthy is your responsibility.
your partner will love you for your efforts made.
It doesn't have to be, but the question is should you for your partner. Like if you're letting it go, should you for the sake of your partner, get yourself back in shape?
A lot of people are just making moralistic stances that it should be for yourself. But let's be honest a lot of people aren't doing it for themselves. They're just fat.
I'm more so saying do you owe something to your partner in regards to your Fitness? Should you do it for them if you're not already fit?
your right on that so what happens when your partner is not there to push you to share up?
just get fatty lol.
but i think they should keep fit for their own health. its their health in risk not the partner.
They should do it for their health, but a lot of people don't. They just let themselves go and end up being unhealthy. If we promote the moralistic stance and that isn't working...
Just oh well lol? They have no responsibility to their partner at all? To me it's odd
oh well health wise they should never burden their partners with hospital bills if they are not responsible lol
So we can at the very least agree that there is a standard that they should maintain in the form of a responsibility to their partner with regards to the personal fitness. Perhaps for you anything short of diabetes LOL
ok yeah agreed, and yes i am more vocal on Non communicable diseases and people who are at risk are those who dn't try both exercise and diets.
Yea, everyone has their line. It's just where is the line before you don't find it acceptable anymore
exactly
I'm in shape for myself and he's in shape because he wants to be
If he gets out of shape and has no plan to get back in shape, does he have any responsibilities to you at all to get himself back in shape?
Or is the couch potato version of him all good and you'll say sincerely that he's fat and happy so I'm happy?
Yes but not for looks but health wise. I mean I would wanna wake next to dead person or person on top of me. Also don’t wanna an anorexic.
Yes you should ! Getting heavy and flabby is a turn off.
Agreed. Heavy is okay, flabby no bueno. You can be a fit 220
I think its important for both people to stay in shape.
You need to do it for multiple reasons, firstly for yourself, secondly for your relationship, it's a fun activity to do together.
If you want them to fuck you definitely haha.
I didn't look at it from that angle but yeah LOL. How often is a girl going to say she's tired if you turn her on
Goes for both genders. You can't be a fat slob then act shocked when your partner isn't sexually attracted anymore lmao.
Oh yeah, I know a few guys who got in shape specifically because they were walking down the street with their girl and saw the lust she had in her eyes for guys who are in really good shape and they noticed that their girl never looked at them with that same look of lust
So they turned around and got ripped. Suddenly their girl was looking at them the same way she was looking at other dudes. To me there's so many reasons to be in shape, some for you some for your partner.
But for a lot of people the reasons for them self is not enough for them to take action. For a lot of people they genuinely will not do something just because it's good for them, they'll do it to get away from Pain they'll do it to help somebody else, will do it for something outside of themselves
People seem to have this idea that it is morally better to do something for yourself or don't do it at all, rather than doing it because you should regardless of what your motivation is
True. Living healthier, longer, and feeling better is not enough reason for a lot of people. They'd rather chug the soda and junk food.
And they will take a moral defensive stance of that position as right and label being in shape if it isn't just for you as "wrong"
Everyone should stay in shape for their health period
That’s stupid. What does being in shape have to do with being a good partner?
If a man attacks your girl in the street do you plan to protect her?
Of course. Don’t see how that pertains to your question…
Does the US military have a physical fitness standard?
You’re scattered all over the place buddy. No, physical fitness has nothing to do with neglecting your partner.
Does the military have a physical fitness standard?
Yes, you should.
Agreed.
As a man I feel like you should always have a level of physical fitness so that you can physically defend your woman, while also maintaining that physical attraction
I always stay in shape for partner
You probably have a big tits
No. You should stay in shape for yourself!
Am I in shape? Well I run 5 miles in less that 45 minutes so I would say so..
That's not bad 👍
No you should stay in shape for yourself.
Thats a great way to look at it
Do it for yourself and your health!