Nagging is abuse?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why it’s taken me almost 20 years of marriage to come to the realization that nagging is a form of verbal abuse? I guess because it is such an accepted form of behavior for women to control their partners in this way.

Men need to be aware of what this controlling behavior really is. I know I was definitely not and it has taken a toll on my mental health over the years. If you’ve got a partner who uses this tactic regularly, I recommend you educate your partner on what they are doing and set boundaries. If that doesn’t work, move on and find your own happiness.

[Apple1996]

Definitely not. Maybe you should just open your ears and listen to what she has to say so she doesn't have to nag

[Asker]

ofc a woman would say that

[Apple1996]

Men that think their wives nag aren't good at active listening. I don't have a issue with this but I learned about this at a marriage counseling type of class. Maybe look into active listening like a how to on Google

[Anonymous]

Possibly mental abuse.