I started getting so sensitive when my boyfriend goes out to see his fucked up friends and family. Am I wrong? Why am I being like this? :/?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend never introduced me to his friends and family as he's got a fucked up family and friends.. and I really hate it when he is out to see them. We have such a great relationship. However , he thinks that i never understand his situation. I think it is also not fair on my side that I have never met his relatives and ask me to understand him. We've been together for 9 months.

[dustybiker]

Most people prove themselves and earn trust through their behavior. Is he protecting you or hiding you?

[Anonymous]

You’re not wrong. He should have introduced you to his friends and family a long time ago. Even if they are fucked up people, he should include you. If you’re going to be a part of his life, it’s not unreasonable to get to know the people around him. He can’t hide you forever from them.

[OddBeMe]

1) do you want a relathionship with them?
2) our personalities are similar to who we befriend. Are you sure he's not like his “fcked up friends?”

[OlderAndWiser]

You can judge someone by the associates they keep.

[LazerBean]

A person is the sum of their 5 closest friends. I wouldn't keep him around, personally.