Am I crazy for worrying about him (read description)?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend got back from his trip last night and we decided to call to catch up on how it all went. We were talking and he seemed pretty awake and happy. Then he needed to go to the bathroom and he said he’d be quick. Now I know he has bladder and bowel issues, so he usually takes 30 minutes maximum. So I waited with the call ongoing, and an hour later, he still wasn’t back. I was getting really worried at this point because I don't know if someone has to poop for that long, that’s a little concerning. And I’ve had bathroom issues where I ended up having to go to the hospital. I stayed in call for another hour and he still wasn’t back and at this time it was pretty late. I have severe paranoia and I tend to overthink things. It was just weird how he didn’t come back from the bathroom for that long, I was scared something happened, so I texted his sibling to check up on him. I’m not close to his sibling though. Was I crazy for doing that? My friend said I’m next level crazy for texting his sibling to check up on him… but is it really that wrong to be concerned? I don't know I need an honest opinion, I feel like I might have been a bit crazy but I didn’t think I was “next level crazy”. Thanks.

[dreamstar72]

I would have been quite worry if my wife said she had to go to the bathroom and was gone for more then 30 minutes. After the thirty minutes I would have asked if she was ok. If she did not answer I would be checking up on her. Tragic things can happen, especially after a trip. Actually I would also do the same thing if it was someone else, maybe not as caring as much.

[_jbli_]

You are totally not being paranoia. You messaging his sibling to check up on him is the best choice you have done at that time. Ignore what your friend told you about being crazy. Your boyfriend should be grateful you did that for him, even if there weren't any problems.

[Asker]

Thanks I appreciate it, I swear I wanted to go to therapy after my friend said that :/ I don't know if it’s normal to be that worrie

[_jbli_]

If therapy will help you control yourself, I do not see any reasons why not. You might discover a thing or two and improve yourself in the process. It's a win-win I would say. Good luck.

[Fineasaaa]

Nah you were not being razy, thats what "sensible" people would do

[Guy13]

Done…you’ve exhausted me. I’m at the other girls pad until you either think I died or got flushed and eaten by the Boa constrictor 🐍 🐍 🐍 in the sewer

[Asker]

This is a serious question. Just answer it. Yes I thought he died smh I have severe paranoia okay? And I know he has health issues so who tf knows