One minute my boyfriend wants to be in a relationship the next minute he just wants to be friends?

[Anonymous]

Me and My boyfriend live together, lately he has been going through a lot and I have been doing my best to help him with all of his problems. but we have been arguing a lot since we moved in together our last argument was 2 weeks ago and he has been staying at a family members house. he's moving back in tomorrow. He came over last night after he got off of work he spent the night and the next morning he just kept telling me how he loved me. and then 10 minutes later he told me we should just be friends and roomates for 2 months until he gets himself together because he's going through a lot right now and he can't love me the way I should be loved. And he's been thinking about this for a while He left out and went to the store he came back 2 hours later and said he changed his mind and said he does want to be with me and that he loved me.

And the entier 2 weeks that he has been gone he'll text me and tell me he want to work on our relationship and that he loves me and then he'll start ignoring my messages for hours for no reason I asked him why he keep doing that he would just tell me he's been busy I feel like he's not interested anymore and moved on already or dont no what he want why can't he make up his mind about what he really wants from Me our last argument was about him always changing future plans one minute he'll tell me he wants to start a family and the next minute he changes his mind

Should I give him time to work on his problems or should I just move on?

[Shehnaz]

He is using you, your emotions, your support and your commitment as a back up for another girl whom he actually loves. Whenever there is fight between them, he comes back to you, the moment they are together again, he wants to be just friends with you. In the end you'll get a heartbreak. Don't worry someone will come across to you who truly loves you more than you love him. It would be a wiser decision to go with such person. All the best.

[Gent207]

I didn't need to read the subtext because LIFE IS SHORT! Do not waste it on people that don't know what they want and only hinder you from your goals and maintaining peace and happiness.
The day has enough troubles as is and doesn't need more with assholes playing Katy Perry
"You're hot and your cold🎵

[driven159]

I would move on you don't need the bullshit and he need to grow up and not be a whinny baby

[Danny_dan92]

Time to end this relationship of yours

[Wise4myage]

Kick him to the curb and move on with your life.