How important is attraction to you in a marriage?

[jennifer_bloom]

Today I went to buy groceries with a family member and the cashiers lover surprised her at work with a balloon that said happy birthday on it, and he was one of the cutest people I’ve seen in the last 2-3 years, I almost wished that he was my boyfriend but I shut those thoughts out cause I thought it was disrespectful to the girl he was with. But if I had a guy like that who was both beautiful and extremely kind, I’d consider myself very lucky.

[Drumlin2001]

It's important but not the most important. You're gunna be with them for life, they will age and change. Having someone you can talk to is more important

[driven159]

To start it is attraction but when it comes to marriage it becomes deeper than that and it's the deep that lasts forever, we all get old and wrinkly

[smilelots]

Attraction is very important, in a relationship. its one of the things that bring people together at first. Then its things like love honesty commitment , integrity, and compatiblity, in thinks like sex children, money, religion, and most of all communication.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'll be honest, I've dated some unconventionally attractive people and was fine with it because they made me feel good and I enjoyed their company. The problem is that after a while their personality turned ugly and so did their looks.

[smilelots]

I hear you on that its what is inside that matters most, but we still have to find something about them that makes us say hello a smile the eyes the way they walk, how they talk, laugh, kiss etc beauty fads well all get old.

[GreatnessBack]

The best marriage is the one where they two people still act like how they were when they first met.
And there should be no reason to NOT do that.
In reality, life and responsibilities try to bog you down, but when those are done for the day, go back to being horny for each other again.

[Someone80004]

For me it's 50-50 personality and looks
Looks will fade some day for everyone, so you'll be stuck with an ugly personality

[RuthlessAggression]

very

however, remember, being VERY picky, will only keep you single. My moms friend is like that. she gets really picky about men, and she remains single

you hear that girls. PERFECTION doesn't EXIST

[Anonymous]

Moderately, with out that initial attraction I probably wouldn't go on a date with her let alone get married to her.

[DoyoutriponLove9898]

I would say 50/50 with personality.