How many of you have heard of this? Women intentionally making relationships extremely hard to try to get men to stop being simps? (Page 2)

Aerissa_Jade · 2022-07-03T22:59:14Z

I heard of this recently, that some women are doing this to men. She is intentionally making herself harder to love, she does things to make the man frustrated and upset. Such as no-showing for dates, then apologizing and asking him to reschedule, usually at extra cost to him. Show up an hour or more late to a date and then wanting to rush through it as if she has somewhere more important to be. Messing with him, and trying to make him work extra hard to be with her. She will promise things, if he'll do just a little more, then failing to deliver, no matter how much more he does. She may even say, she wants him to work really hard to prove he really loves her and keeps making things even more difficult, with no end in sight, while taking advantage of him. The key here is they are INTENTIONALLY making it harder/more expensive for him, so he has to prove he loves her. (Who the heck makes your relationship harder on purpose?) Then soon as he gets upset and has enough, loses his patience and gets very angry and ends the relationship. She says that is exactly what she wanted, she wanted him to NOT be a simp and to stand up for himself. She doesn't want to be with a simp, to her and now that he isn't one anymore she is ready to get the relationship going and make it as easy as possible for him and no longer take advantage of him and be equal partners. Problem is, the man has had ENOUGH and is done with her, and at this point, she is trying to fix/repair the relationship and if she is unable to, will then complain that there are no good men out there. She seriously thinks she did him a favor and doesn't understand why once she got him to stop being a simp, he wants nothing to do with her. That she helped him to have better self worth. I can only think, wtf... is wrong with these women. Who the heck wants to make their relationships intentionally harder, then complains when they destroy it.

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ChrisMaster69 Follow
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That is as Toxic as fuck really.

That fucks with a persons emotional well being.

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Baylayy Follow
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That would be a turn off for me if someone does that. by the way follow me. We've been friends before. I got bored so came back on this app

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Never heard of it. No man worth having would put up with that.

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FilmGuy93 Follow
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I know that a lot of women make dating them a gigantic pain in the butt, but I didn't know it had anything to do with eliminating simps.

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Gent207 Follow
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Sounds like she came from an abusive household and tried to replicate it in her adult relationships.

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Whatever2929292 Follow
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I don't deal with women who make things hard or are one sided. That or women that hate men

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SilverRain92 Follow
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That's called being a bitch. Guys should stay away from such women unless they want to have problematic relationship

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glennos89 Follow
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Those types will be kicked out sooner then they came in lol 😂

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Someone would have to be pretty desperate and pathetic to accept that kind of behavior.

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I've never heard of this, but I'm very familiar with the concept of women who never let a submissive beta male get his dick inside her, and many women actually become sexually aroused by doing this to wimps.

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Lol This sounds insane! And women who actually do this deserve every piece of rejection once their "project" with him is over. Get caught in their own web of stupidity.

Pffahahahahahaha.

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well first thing to not be a simp don't put-up with-it people only do things they think they can get away with those are game players don't play that game those games are for children

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Seems like a weird, roundabout way of dealing with a problem. Do a notable amount of guys simp or something?

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Noodle_fan Follow
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never heard this before , well , this is interesting
i thought guys only simping to e-girls , only fans girls , only something like that

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MikeInHawaii Follow
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I was stood up many times in my younger days. Never by the same woman twice, though.

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Neilbud Follow
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Like you said it's a double edged sword. You got what you wanted, but you destroyed the relationship in the process. Not smart.

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Guardian45 Follow
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If I'm dating someone and they start playing mindgames with me, then they're history. Period.

I DON'T have time for immature children.

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AndrésC64 Follow
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And making yourself harder to love is a good way to end up alone.

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Chick's like this end up in my block list I ain't working hard for ish

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That sounds like she has too much time and energy on her hands if she is going to all that trouble to keep a relationship on the edge like that

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