Should I be concerned about them getting back together?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and he has a baby on the way. Before you judge him and her ended on bad terms. They don't see each other they are done. She texted him nudes today and I saw it. He ignored her text message. I saw her text say she was sending a longer video clip and for him to check his snapchat. He then went on to check his snapchat. I saw it because the timing between the snapchat notification gap. I'm no idiot. I saw it and he wrote that clearly her priorities were wrong. The text message then said I love your daughter and miss her so much please tell her or I'll tell her one day. His ex's daughter is like 4 years old.

It seems like my boyfriend has a better connection with his ex's daughter than mines :( Anyway the good news is he ignored her nudes and ignored her. She even asked him for a photo and he said no. You are only messaging me because you are bored and you get no photo of me anymore. Just know I'm doing better and happier now.

However, he didn't tell her about me? Maybe he didn't tell her he was taken because he doesn't want drama?

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1 y

If he's done with him, I don't understand why he is not blocking her nudes and messages?

He told me he's not interested but misses her daughter very much , plus they have a baby on the way due months away.

[OlderAndWiser]

"they are done. She texted him nudes today"

Clearly, thy are NOT done, at least in her mind.

[Asker]

In her head. In his head yes. I just wish he would block her especially if she's sending him nudes.

[one1wild00]

Your analysis sounds sound. Why stir the pot when the relationship is dead and he is not wanting to encourage but he also sees no reason to give her more info by telling her about you, especially if she has the potential of going psycho.

[Asker]

From what I know he was obsessed with her. He loved her so much. It's funny you called her a psycho.

She seems like the psycho now but before he threatened to hurt her physically because she kept playing emotional games with his heart. She told me he bruised her arm after he grabbed it and cried.

I asked him and he confirmed calling it a passion mark that he was upset at her doing him so poorly.

[one1wild00]

I had an ex girlfriend that sounds a lot like her, played havoc with my heart and my self esteem as she was nice one minute and meaner than a snake the next. best thing is is to let them fade into the background no matter what emotional bond was had.

[Asker]

Yeah he didn't leave her. He was obsessed. But it seems that love turned to him hating her. I just want to make sure he doesn't take care back. Did you get over her?

[one1wild00]

I Did, she passes through my thoughts on occasion, but it's usually her psycho aspects. Physically she was an ideal for me, but the mental instability was more than I could take. No regrets here on my moving on and still looking.

[Asker]

So why do you think he asked her , "be honest... how many men have you slept with since our break up "?

[countrygirl8754]

He should block her. But I don't know seems like he is staying in touch because 1. Of the children and 2, him looking at the nudes seems like he misses her even though he politely told her to fuck off

[Asker]

Yeah I told him to block her until the baby is due. He won't. He said because she checks in to tell him how it's going.

Yeah he told her to kick rocks buy the nudes kept coming through and he won't say anything just look at it and cross it out:(

[RuthlessAggression]

I wonder why they didn't work it out. Why they broke up in the first place

[Asker]

She left him. She played lots of games and had dumped him 20 times in the past due to him not having money or doing something small. He got tired of it and Said he's not going back to her.

[RuthlessAggression]

Well they have a kid, how is he not making money AND having a kid

[Asker]

he's not financially stable and she's pregnant by him.

[RuthlessAggression]

right, so, why she having a kid, when he's NOT WORKING

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Asker]

Why?

[Ruenella_]

Don't be concerned.