#Survey When in a Relationship?

[DizzyDesii]

Please copy/paste AND feel free to distinguish if you’re speaking in terms of hours/days/weeks/months AND/OR or if living in the same place vs long distance, etc.
1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself?
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother?
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother?
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother?
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person?
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance?
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating?
8. How often is sex needed once started?
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together?
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?#FeelFreeToList #QualityTime

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My Answers

1. At least 7p-10p Sun-Thurs (not including work hrs) 2. Preferably for an hour in the day and a few hrs after 10pm
3. At least a good morning/night text
4. Every two weeks if LDR.
5. Preferably once a month but no longer than every 3 months 6. 1-2 Years 7. Closer to a year 8. Varied til married 9. At least every other weekend 10. Within the first 30 days

[Th3ft]

I think I got everything on here. 😜🤣

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself?
A. 2-8 hours a day depending on how I’m feeling but mostly just 2 or 3

2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? A. I liked what someone else said… “as often as we can’t do a video chat”… I almost need the facial expressions to be able to fallow a conversation.
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother?
A. All day every day. I mean it is exceptable to go all day without texting too! But I just want to talk to my girl!

4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? A. At least once a day. And I mean again not necessary but I love a video chat!

5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person?

A. I would want it to be every couple of moths at least. But I could go up to a 6 month rotation
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance?

A. I wouldn’t want to move in until we were married.
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating?

A. I’m all over the map with that one. Maybe a couple dates maybe 6 months.
8. How often is sex needed once started?

A. I mean is it ever actually needed?… lol! I know it is… but is it?… i would think every couple of days at the least. And definitely multiple times! I mean I have had days where I was masturbating like 6 times in a day. I t would just depend.
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together?

A. Every day!
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents? Probably pretty soon. Maybe after a couple of dates.

[DizzyDesii]

#1 does the 7 hours include work?
#2 yea im not that visual
#3 texting does nothin for me lmao
#6 at least engaged for me

[Th3ft]

1# So No that 8 hours is just going on that random hunting trip or something that I hope I can do someday. Like I said it really is only 2 or 3
2# I can understand that and I mean I would much rather video chat but I am okay with not because who wants to sit in front of a scream that long.
3# really?
6# I can reason to engaged. I mean living together is more about how close you are at that point. And hopefully if you are already spending g so much time in a day that you choose to move in together you got to be pretty close.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i always forget to text back

[Th3ft]

And thank you for the MHO!!

[JDavid25]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? Well so far I liked spending much of my time with her.

2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? Yeah, I'm starting not to like texting so much, with phone calls I get to see her. Texting is easier though.

3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother?

Enough not to get bored of each other..

4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? I don't know really, not everyday though..

5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person?

A few months at most.. I couldn't do anymore than 3 or 4 months.

6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance?

A would say we could wait a year or so. I wouldn't be in a rush.

7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? Really it's immediately especially if I'm really attracted to her, it's honestly all about her comfortability..

8. How often is sex needed once started?

At least week times a week.. Depends on how the chemistry is really..

9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together?

At least once a week.

10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?

Once I know she will be somebody who sticks around for the long haul.

[DizzyDesii]

Welcome back. How long have y'all be going strong

[JDavid25]

Hey Desii... And I wish I could say we were.. 😅😅..

[DizzyDesii]

Noo what happened

[JDavid25]

Multiple things.. LOL.. Let's just say she is not an easy woman for things to go smoothly with..

[DizzyDesii]

Ohhh i can relate

[JDavid25]

Yeah, I remember your dating stories.. Hahaha.. At least you knew how to stick it out.. Thanks for MHO also.

[JoseJr]

1. I dont like spending too much time on my own. I had a very lonely childhood, truth be told last thing I want is time alone. But I know its necessary and I can't do a lot of thing with my girl etc.

2. I always liked long calls throughout the day when possible. But a minimum of like 30 mins a day is like my comfort zone. Shit I got homies who im on the phone fuckin around with for an hour lol no homo

3. Ignoring my age I hate texting, I hate that form of communication cuz its hard to put emotions and life into a sentence. That shit pisses me off. But thats me🙃

4. Kinda the same thing as call I prefer this method over texting. Its about 50/50 with calling. Love a girl who does some freaky shit over video call.

5. I've been on 2 LDR and for me I had no beef going 3 or 4 months at a time. Not ideal cuz like anyone else Im trying to get it wet. So I'd say like 4 months max

6. Once again I got no beef with staying away from each other as long as I get the occasional 😈pic/video and phone/ video call. I can go as long as needed.

7. I can feel the hate already but as a guy I can realistically have sex with no emotion or attachment. So I can do it same day or wait at max of like 2 weeks.

8. Needed? Realistically for me probably 3 times a week. Want? Everyday

9. Not that often Im a home body. Because of my occupation Im away from regularly and for long periods of time. So Im home I just like to stay home. Dont get me wrong I do like going out occasionally but thats a max like once or twice a month.

10. My only parent in my life is my pops and for me to feel comfortable enough to have her meet my pop realistically is maybe about the time I start thinking about proposing. My dad is a very serious no bs kinda guy. So last thing I need is to be introducing him to all my girls if I dont see a future with them.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree i hate texting too

[DaveJord]

1. 5 days a week.

2. We call each other three times a day. She calls me at lunch because we have the same lunch break time and chat and eat together (30 minutes to a 1 hour). She calls me on her drive home from work (15 to 30 minutes).) And I call her every night to say good night. (5 to 10 minutes.)

3. Once a day just to say good morning.

4. Never.

5. Hypothetically, 1 or 2 times a month. But I never dated or with someone more that 50 to 100 miles away. For to set boundaries and I am not driving more than 2 hour to see someone.

6. Really depends on the person but at least 12 months. I own my place, so no motage or rent. So I would never move in to anyone else's place.

7. For me 1st date, but not much later than the 3rd to 5th date, much longer starts to become a red flag for me.

8. Weekly depending on the relationship, I see my girl every weekend... if we lived together no less than 1 or 2 times a week, but I'd want more than that, but once or twice a week is minnium.

9. Weekly at least once weekly, and daily is great with me.

10. Around 6 month of serious dating.

[DizzyDesii]

#6 yea i wouldn't really want to move into anyones place either

[LazerBean]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? I never get tired of being with him.

2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? At least once a day if he is staying overnight away.

3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother? Every hour

4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? Same as phone

5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person? A few months I guess? Not really sure, we would make whatever work though.

6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance? After marriage

7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? After marriage

8. How often is sex needed once started? Preferably at least 3 times a week, but we can make anything work

9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together? Doesn't really matter

10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents? Immediately

[DizzyDesii]

#10 good and rare

[LovingLoverReturned]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? 50%

2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? Any amount of time to replace a missed video call.

3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother? Ever other day/Almost everyday (short chatting is fine)

4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? About 3 times a week (in one day can be long, depends to busy schedule),

5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person? Need, Like need before I feel we have to "end" it? A few years perhaps.

6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance? Never with a boyfriend.

7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? Never with a boyfriend.

8. How often is sex needed once started? I can be horny weekly but sporadically throughout the week.

9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together? Twice a week

10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents? A year minimum #FeelFreeToList #QualityTime

[DizzyDesii]

5 waiting years is super nice lol. I couldnt #6 i agree like he needs to be a fiance at least lmao

[Anpu23]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? A few hours a dah
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? A couple of times a day
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother? Whenever Im not a big texter
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? Never did it.
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person? Well my last LDR lasted over a year without face to face contact.
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance? A couple of months.
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? Same day I met.
8. How often is sex needed once started? A couple of times a week is nice
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together? Weekly
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?#FeelFreeToList. Whenever, its not a big deal to me.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea the parents thing isn't a big deal to me either

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself?
= None.
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother?
= I prefer voip, but often.
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother?
= Often enough to seem like they are right here.
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother?
= Often.
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person?
= I'd not stop bugging her till she came over with no end in sight for my persistence.
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance?
= Depends.
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating?
= immediately, but I would be best friends with her for 3 years before dating her.
8. How often is sex needed once started?
= 1-2 times a day required, will do up to 5 times a day if requested.
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together?
= Not very often.
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?
= Long before I start dating her.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao i like how you said often

[TheSpaceGnome]

I said it often I did yes.

[TacosRAwesome]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? I'm happy seeing them around twice a week. If I live with them I need around 2 hours daily of alone time.
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? Once daily is enough
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother? Randomly during the day
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? Once daily
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person? At least once a month
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance? I'd rather not at all. Maybe after marriage but ideally I have my own weekend place.
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? About a month
8. How often is sex needed once started? Couple times a week
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together? Most weekends
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?#FeelFreeToList my ex met my parents about a couple months in. I'd rather wait a couple more months.

[DizzyDesii]

#6 i dont blame you. I’m in no rush to share a space

[Jamie05rhs]

[Consider these answers to be based on living in the same area but not in the same house.]


1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself?
A reasonable amount. But I still want to spend time with my girlfriend regularly.


2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother?
Phone calls? I don't know. Maybe once a week.


3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother?
Once a day.


4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother?
I don't like video chats. I'd rather meet in person.


5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see each other in person?
If I'd never met her before, I would like to meet within a year. (But the relationship won't be official until we meet, at least.)


6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance?
Lol. I don't NEED to move in with anyone, ever. Even if we get married, we don't necessarily have to move in together.


7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating?
I will only have sex after the wedding.


8. How often is sex needed once started?
That will be a private conversation between my wife and I, and we will work it out together.


9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together?
Hopefully at least once a week.


10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?
I guess when we get engaged? I don't know

[DizzyDesii]

I agree i rather just hang in person because video chats often have awkward stares lol. Is it odd that i’ve thought the same for #6? I mean i obviously prefer to love together once married but I don't know the idea of sharing a space isn't too exciting because i like things to look a certain way

[Jamie05rhs]

@DizzyDesii Yeah.
And no; it's not odd at all! I mean, people date and have sexual relationships without living together. So why should married people have to live together? That's the way I see it anyway.

[DizzyDesii]

Well i want kids and if im married, we’ll all be under one roof

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, yeah; obviously it's different if children are involved.

[Mark987]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? at least an hr a day
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? at least 30 mins a day
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother? Text I have no limit. I'd rather text than anything else
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? Almost never
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person? three weeks
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance? I would have to be dating at least a year
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? about a month.. if the chemistry is there.. than doesn't matter
8. How often is sex needed once started? 4-5 times a week
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together? at least once a week
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents? about 6 months. Has to be someone serious

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wow 3 weeks lol. Yea LDR isn't for you haha

[innerman]

1___ if you dnt wana join in on my movie of video game time, then that’s just my me time.

2 / 3 / 4 ___ we can chat whenever but dnt text me every 5 mins like am a cancer patient. PS. I hate phone calls during the day.

5___ a year... damn. I dnt think I can do LDT

6___ this is a hard one. Maybe a year

7___ chemistry. This can even happen on 3rd date. ... that’s within a weeks time

8___ like 5 times a week... but that no even looks too small but I just... okay

9___ oohh... the moment I discover there’s something we haven’t done, it’s next on the list, like ASAP.

10___ wooow... that’s also very hard. I live in different time zones with me folks so... why the rush. We will meet them when we will meet them

tF... all these people asking all these questions on this dating survey, feels like everyone’s is dating everyone... that’s weird

[DizzyDesii]

I hate texting so phone calls are a must but more so during nighttime.
What you mean feels like everyone is dating everyone?

[innerman]

Texting is like reading a novel... the suspense and excitement lasts longer.

Phone calls are great at night... when you ask each other stupid questions like..” so your brother is a boy..😂

These first date Qns... everyone answering them, so we all ready for a second date 😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

Oh yea im not gonna waste my time on silly questions

[innerman]

You call during daytime... be straight like a soldier... no long dialogues 😂

[DizzyDesii]

A day call for like 30 mins is not bad

[innerman]

30mins
how will I tell you in the evening how I missed you when we been taking for 30mins
Do you want me to lie...

[DizzyDesii]

30 mins in the morning then going 8 hours without eachother is enough to talk again later that night

[innerman]

Ok... that seems reasonable

[melanieeeB]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself? - enough but couldn't say something excat
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother? -- when needed, daily is nice tho if there is the time and energy for that
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother? - when needed, daily is nice tho if there is the time and energy for that
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother? - don't need that lol
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person? - none, I'm not a ld person
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance? - when it feels right and we both want to
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating? - depends on the person and how comfortable and secure he makes me feel
8. How often is sex needed once started? - needed once a week, but I'm available daily lmao
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together? - At least twice a month.. or when we feel like it I guess
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents? - Depends again on him and how comfortable and secure he makes me feel; I introduced the last pretty fast tho

[krin_m]

1. How much time do you like to spend to yourself?

Ans: 2-4 hours a day outside work
2. How often do you prefer to communicate by phone call while away from eachother?

Ans: 2-3 times a day
3. How often do you prefer to communicate by text while away from eachother?

Ans: 2-3 times a day
4. How often do you prefer to communicate by video chat while away from eachother?

Ans: Once a day
5. Hypothetically, if you were in a long distance relationship, how long could you wait until you’d need to see eachother in person?

Ans: Less than a week
6. How long until you need to move in with a person, regardless of distance?

Ans: Depends
7. How long on average til you’re usually comfortable having sex with someone you just started dating?

Ans: Probably a week.
8. How often is sex needed once started?

Ans: Every day (preferably more than once)
9. How often would you prefer to do activities outside of home together?

Ans: Every day
10. How long until you are likely to introduce them to your parents?

Ans: As soon as we become an item

[DizzyDesii]

#1 yea i def need like 3-5 hours #2 rare but nice to hear #4 even if hypothetically ldr? #8 i def want it multiple times a day but I struggle with having sex too often if unmarried. I’d be in my head too much #9 wow thats good

[Sarahr123]

I like to spend all my time to myself unless I’m horny 😂

I don’t like going on dates I like going straight into a relationship and I am a very easy going and simple person so I just wanna be home, watch a film and cuddle.

If we don’t live together then when I am not with them I like enjoying my own time talking to friends and doing things I enjoy alone.

[DizzyDesii]

I feel you on that

[Phoenix98]

1# at least an hour.

2/3/4# at this point I’d just be happy for communication in general.

5# long as I need to.

6# don’t know.

7# not gonna have sex with someone I just started dating.

8# probably want it frequently.

9# whenever we feel like it

10# depends.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wow to only ask for an hour of space is surprising

[Phoenix98]

I said at “least” an hour meaning that’s the minimum

[DizzyDesii]

I know but im just saying even that as a minimum is surprising

[Phoenix98]

Well when your used to being alone you don’t really need as much time alone.

[DizzyDesii]

You must have some crazy high standards cause im just shocked you're single

[Phoenix98]

Not really my standards are pretty well, standard lol. I guess I'm just weary and careful, these days, I don't want a repeat of my last relationship.

[TrillXHippy]

1. When I’m not at work I usually spend time by myself for the entire day so half of that

2-4. Whenever possible

5. N/A

6. N/A

7. Married. Do not do not do not try anything with me

8. Married. Do not do not do not try anything with me

9. Whenever possible

10. A handful of dates and every last one of them has to at least go alright

[DizzyDesii]

7 and 8 alright damn lmao

[Guy13]

Damn... I'm cross-eyed already. ;-) It must be simpler for Man...

[Valso]

I was in a relationship so long ago, that I forgot what I would answer to these questions, LOL

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂

[enocheli]

I prefer to be alone