First or all I'm sorry that my English is not good.
My boyfriend and I met on bumble in April. He is us army in my country.
Few weeks ago, he suddenly followed one woman on spotify and it was mutual. It was sus and I googled him and her. I know this is weird and toxic but I even don't know anything about his American life so I wanted to check and make sure tbh.
I found her FB and checked her posts. There were my bfs familys and friends comments and likes on her post. And it is happened until recently. And I found another post that she mentioned him in 2019. The post was about relationship meme.
So few days later I asked him who is she and at first he tried to tell she is his sister. And suddenly he changed his words like "I don't know her" since he noticed i know his sister's name.
To me this doesn't make sense at all because I know she is connected to his family and friend, mentioned his name on the fb and is following his spotify. And on her fb information page, it says she is in relationship from 2019 and all of likes and comments from his family and friend started from 2019.
And another sus thing is about is pcs. He said he was supposed to leave here in July and he said he changed it to next year.
But I found his new fb account which is made in this April. It only has 9 friends and it seems like he doesn't use it well.
He wrote the post on his army base page about selling his TV on June and he said he pcsing soon. He would just lied on the post to sell it quickly but it is weird.
He said he will be on a vacation to America soon and I'm afraid that he will just disappear if he lied about pcs to me.
And while I googled him, I think he lied about his family and hometown (not sure)
He talks like we are in serious relationship but now I feel like he has real girlfriend in the states and I am a girlfriend for deployment. I want to know the truth but it is hard to find more thing about his American life here. Or is it better to just leave him?
