When will it be my time to find love?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been struggling with aloneness for a while and right now I feel so lost with it. It seem like everyone I know it is a relationship except me, yes I know that not exactly true but people like my best friend, idols, even tiktok creators I follow is in this love journey I’ve been wanted to experience in my youth before really giving up and rather die alone. I know I haven’t been confident for myself and maybe that why others are seeing that and that why no one want to give me a try. Any suggestions or What am I doing wrong?

[FilmGuy93]

lack of confidence is a big part of it, feeling depressed/hopeless is big too.

You have to be intentional about living life in a way that lets you connect with people and you can't be afraid to pursue connections when you find them. I find that a lot of women shortchange themselves in dating by having too specific of an idea of what they want in dating and rejecting guys who don't meet those criteria out of hand, rather than taking the perspective that they will just wait and see what the reality of a situation is.

Take me, for example. I'm talking with a woman I met at random on Reddit. Even though she and I live in different states and we barely know each other, we keep our conversation going because we just have a vibe about each other. We don't complicate things; we just talk and see where things go.

I have no idea if she and I will become something more, but I do know that I'm enjoying what we have now.

[DavidRaul]

You aren't doing anything. Beleive me i have been through this but sometimes some people are not ready. Just take your time. Maybe men around you don't meet your standards

[DavidRaul]

*anything wrong

[Asker]

Yeah i guess I have to keep wait patiently thank you

[DavidRaul]

Exactly

[sheikalana]

I used to feel this way when I was younger too. I even used to think I was never going to find someone until I finally did. Took me 30 years but I to be honest with you I was very persistent I kept looking for it despite having so many heartbreaks and I kept putting myself out there. Sometimes is also good to take some time for yourself though, take care of yourself so when you meet someone you'll look and feel your best.

[UniquelyBasic]

can't say what you're doing wrong if there isn't any information about you.

[Asker]

Not much about me but a workaholic, introvert, sad, creative, curvy fashionista.

[peedy]

Good question im still waiting for my answer to

[Asker]

Lol really, I guess I’m not alone on that part.

[peedy]

Im sure there is a lot if us out there

[Asker]

True, when you not a social people it feel like your the only one thinking of it and many things

[KrakenAttackin]

Check your friend zone, problem solved.