I found lipstick next to his dumpster should I be concerned?

[Anonymous]

I was throwing the trash out one day while staying at my boyfriends place for a few weeks. When I went to his dumpster outside I found a lipsticks by the trash. I asked him who’s it was and he asked me if i was sure it wasn’t mine. I dropped the subject since his neighbor lives next to the outdoor trash and I didn’t see it the last time I threw the trash out. But I don't know, it has me a bit paranoid to be honest. Should I be concerned?

[spartan55]

Okay, you aren't being logical. Is your boyfriend the only one who uses that dumpster? Is it possible it came from a random someone? Are you really going to make a fool of yourself about this?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Well considering the fact I throw trash on other people's bins when I walk by a neighborhood, I wouldn't be surprised if others do it too

[Asker]

The bin isn’t at front but more between their two homes. Which is why I was sketched out but I don't know, someone else could have for sure thrown their trash there

[TheMajesticKing777]

What are the chances a girl he was cheating on you with would go outside to throw her lipstick? Not to mention if it was from close it would be inside the trash not on the floor, seems more like someone pulled a yeeeeeeet and threw it and missed and left it there cause they can't trespass into the property, normally someone would pick it up and toss it in even if they missed, if you were with a guy at his house and did what y'all did and you throw away lipstick and you miss the bin, would you leave it on the floor at that guy's house? Considering it's on the floor I feel like it was from someone that didn't have access to that property

[Anonymous]

Yea because whats worse? Him cheating or possibly becoming the next Caitlyn Jenner crossdresser?

[Anonymous]

Either you trust him or you don't. This question suggests that deep down something about the guy cannot be trusted. So yes you should be concerned on many fronts.

[Danny_dan92]

Unmm…. You mentioned dumpster. Does he live in an apartment complex?

[RuthlessAggression]

Even the idea that he might be cheating, should make you put up a red flag

[Anonymous]

LOL Definitely dont be concerned. Seriously.

[Anonymous]

Never trust a man. You have every right to be worried.