Do you think it's fair to be treated like this? Should I say something?

[Anonymous]

So I'm living with my boyfriend and her sister and her boyfriend (basically 2 couples) I don't work at the time due to some paperwork drama.. however I feel like I'm the maid of the house. Always doing the dishes it doesn't matter if its breakfast dishes or lunch etc. I always do them and if I don't they just stay there and I feel like I'm being judged. Always cleaning the house. When they leave something in the middle it's like they do it on purpose so I will do it and finish the chores. I didn't mind it at first as I show respect. But I feel like it got out of hand.. I've been doing this for like 8months or so.. and it came to a point that if I don't I feel like I'm being judged.. What do you think I should do?

[Anonymous]

You're not working so it's your job to do...
Go find job this problem will solve automatically

[Asker]

I see u didn't read the part where I said "due to paperwork"

[Opinion Owner]

You're doing paperwork from home na... so it's obvious they think she will do it later bkoz she just sitting at home.

Don't be so drama n headache

[Asker]

What a mindset you have. So when you have a guest living with you means u automatically got yourself a maid?

[Opinion Owner]

It's not a maid dear...
If you went out on work n other girl at home than she will do what you're doing right now.

You're just overthinking

[Wise4myage]

Have a sit down, and discuss this. I see no reason why chores can't be divided up.

[Asker]

I'm afraid I don't want to have a fight with them.. Plus I'm the only one who is not working but that's not because I don't want to.

[Wise4myage]

You don't have to fight, just speak your mind in a calm manner. If you don't than nothing is gonna change.

[driven159]

then you need to say something

[Jouth]

maybe get a job