My LDR girlfriend broke up with me last week and she said that the relationship was draining her. We didn't talk for a week and after I reached out we talked. She said that she not only lost feelings for me but for everything. When I asked what "everything" meant she said she didn't feel comfortable telling. She said that she feels like I disregard her feelings and I try to tell her how she feels. I self reflected and I saw what she was saying, instead of trying to come up with a solution I should've just been there for her listening to how she felt and I apologized because those weren't my intentions. She said thanks for apologizing and that she knows I didn't mean to do that. And I know break ups don't just happen so she must've felt unheard for a while. I guess what I'm asking is if there is a chance for us to get back together? We've been in a LDR for almost a year. She broke up with me but what I also don't understand is why would she want me around? She cried when she broke up with me. This might be stupid but she sent me a message the day after the breakup saying that she wanted me to still use her streaming services. Why do that? Like why would you want anything that reminds you of me? If she was over the relationship shouldn't she want to cut the cord? I really love this girl so any thoughts or advice would be appreciated. Also she said she's not the relationship type which seems like a contradiction of her actions.
Relationship Advice?
