Would you be comfortable marrying a bisexual person?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

I said no and its not because I have any issue with bisexual, because I do not... even though I am anti-LGBTQ.

So I am heterosexual and I would want a monogamous relationship or am open without commitment. The problem I have in dating real bisexuals, and what I mean by that is people that truly have urges and sexual attractions to both genders, not just some one that experimented in college.

So the problem in dating real real bisexuals, is that they have real and sincere urges to be with both genders. So as a guy that means there are just some things I can not do for them, and therefore I would not expect or ask them to give up that part of themselve to commit to a mongongos relationship with me. Monogamy is something I must have without any doubt with person with that level trust before I would consider marriage and I do not see myself having that level of trust with a bisexual person. Because I would know on some level I am asking way more of them then is expected of myself.

Its bad enough as a guy, dating a women to be suspect of other guys, now I got to worry about every other women they are "just friends" with? So yeah, I guess that is asking a lot of me as well. I just don't see myself getting to the level of trust I would need to consider marriage... but I could serious date a bisexual and just see how it goes but I would need sometime and a lot of patience to really get to the that level.

TheUniqueOne96 · Accepted Answer

It depends to what extent they'e bisexual.

For myself, I find marriage unnecessary, as I don't believe in religion and therefore believe you can live together and all that stuff without actually being married.

What I mean by the first point, is that if they're attracted to the more sexual body parts of the same gender and maybe the sexual noises and that's it, then that's fine, but not facially or anything like that.

I myself like the idea of a woman with a dick sometimes, but I think that's mostly due to the fact a woman being sexually dominant sounds hot AF to me and I guess the dick symbolizes dominance, so sometimes I fantasise about having switched body parts because my ideal partner is so dominant, lol.

In general, you can tell the difference between a man and a woman and I don't have sexual attraction to the male aesthetic like face and body, only the female one, like even a girl who's not attractive to me can have a nice body that I could get off over and with guys, it just doesn't do it for me, apart from the odd transwoman who's actually managed to pull it off and look like a biological woman, but I doubt I'd date a transwoman, as they are biologically male.

Basically, if she's 'bisexual' to the same extent that I would be deemed as by many, then fine, but if she's open to dating other women, then no, because I'm not open to dating men.

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Ugh no. I'm straight woman so I want a straight man, not man straddling the fence where one day he might feel a craving for a woman then eventually might want a man. It happens, women have gotten left over a man before. As a woman losing a man over a man is one Hell of blow lol 😆 But I don't mind being friends, I'm just mot interested in men who have sex with men.

letuswaltzforthedead · Accepted Answer

Yeah, as long as they're not poly or something. I just want someone looking for a monogamous LTR. Sadly, a lot of bi girls I know were poly and I'm not interested being a cuckquen. I don't know any guys who were bi, most of them were just straight or gay.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I did. I satisfied her when she wanted a man but I couldn't satisfy her when she wanted a woman and she cheated on me in a most horrible way, with another woman. We were soon divorced. I would never, ever again repeat that mistake.

And don't bother to respond to tell me that not all bisexual people are unfaithful. Don't. I don't want to hear it.

SecretsofKB · Answer

So my last relationship was with a bisexual woman. I was in love with her and I did want to marry her, but life took us in opposite directions.  So yes, I would marry a bisexual woman.

MCheetah · Answer

F*CK NO. Not a million years and not for a billion dollars. Between a transwoman and a half-assed lesbian who openly admits to you she's not attracted to you or men, I legit would have a harder time choosing which one would be worse. Sh*t makes my skin crawl in how disgusting it is.

I'm not homophobic, but I really wish gay people would stay on their own side. They have LGBT, plus Q and a bunch of other letters and sh*t. Why do they need to infect heterosexuals and cross over to our side too? It's bad enough straight women are going extinct. Isn't having half the alphabet good enough? You need to scam and simp straight men out of their money too because other gay women aren't as easy of targets?

Considering the person who I THOUGHT was my first girlfriend turned out to be one of the pseudo-lesbians in question and I had my heart broken thinking I had a relationship with someone who was gay this whole time, I have a VERY negative view of them and it is my only "closed-minded" view I have. Just please stick within the LGBT community and leave us normal straight people TF alone. Dating is hard enough as it is with actual heterosexuals.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Only under 2 specific circumstances.

Option 1. She only has sex with me, and her female sexual experiences would be limited to lesbian porn, because then its common ground cementing the relationship further, rather than a relationship divider, I'd be perfectly fine watching it with her and sending her porn I think she'd like.

Option 2. If she also wants to have a girlfriend, that extra woman has to also be my second girlfriend, and has to basically be the same type of person as her and me mentally, and be just as attractive as her, and has to love me as much as she does, and has to have no other partners besides us, and would also be married to us, and both can't ever want kids.

Granted, second person or not, the first has to not want kids either way, since I don't want any.

Option 1 is fairly common, option 2 is rare af and poly marriage is illegal in a lot of places.

Outside of these options, my answer would be no, because I'm not interested in being cheated on.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Never knowingly. If she even had inclinations of curiosity to fight off, I'd at least wish to know her struggle first. If I find out she's in the closet, and bi behind my back, I consider that five times as vile a betrayal as if she were simply a cheating little two-timer with a side dude!

Also, crossing that bridge of pure evil, indefensible abomination is the big bridge. The miles-long bridge. Once it's crossed, all others to all other islands of pure paraphilia and perversion are miniscule.

It only starts with her having side dudes and side chicks behind my back. It only begins with stashing and manipulation.

Next thing you know, she's putting you down because her collection of Tom Hiddleston porn is more exciting to her. And then she's overdosing dogs on Benadryl and trying to jack them off.

Never again will I let someone like that try to play me for a fool! To the wood chipper with the Prolapse Mafia!

caring__1 · Answer

That's the same as asking if you'd be comfortable marrying a straight person. It is very possible for anyone to commit to a single partner. Just because people may be more or less open-minded when it comes to choosing a partner, that's not a statement about how faithful they'll be when they enter a relationship.

We all have preferences, what we've discovered works best for us, yet not everyone has the same preferences. Having a preference for pancakes won't prevent you from being totally satisfied by a breakfast of waffles. If you're given the option for both, and you enjoy both the same, choosing one won't lead you to regret not choosing the other. How people label their sexual orientation has nothing to do with how they label their likelihood to fully commit to one person.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Sexuality does not = cheater. In fact, out of all the people I’ve dated, straight men cheated the most compared to bisexual men, bisexual women and lesbians. So no, I wouldn’t marry a bisexual person, but only because I don’t desire marriage. I’d happily be in a long term relationship with a bisexual person though.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

My wife is bi, but she doesn't bother with it since she has me. I've encouraged it because, duh, I'd like extra pussy! The only thing better than pussy is more pussy! lolz.

I think she's satisfied and even though I'm all about her bagging some chicks, she sees it as a pointless endeavor now that I basically fill that hole, among other holes.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I would kill for my boyfriend to be bi. Do you know how awesome it would be to go to a strip club together? Seriously though, I don't see any real negatives to it.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

The only bisexual women I’ve known on a personal level were pretty far out there. I’m sure there are more stable ones but it’s a red flag/deal breaker for me. I want a normal monogamous relationship with a normal heterosexual woman , which is apparently unusual these days.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I'm bisexual myself, so more than happy to. I'd only consider dating a cis man if he were bisexual, too.

Makeushiver · Answer

I'd need to be able to ize up the person. I love bi girls as lovers since they ae usually far more experimental. The same in a life partner might be too much but I sure as hell wouldn't mind dating one now

NathanDavis · Answer

Yes. my ex-girlfriend was bisexual... and there was absolutely nothing uncomfortable about it

Sour-rose · Answer

O hell yesss...

acooke-13 · Answer

Of course, someones sexuality doesn't matter to me. People thinking bi-sexuals are more likely to cheat are dumb and probably straight men.

SlightlyEccentric · Answer

Being bisexual doesn't automatically make you polygamous. Most of us prefer monogamy and only wanting one relationship at a time.

Anonymous · Answer

I did but I got jealous because he started to spend more time with the guy than he did with me. I don't think I could ever do it again ever.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course because I don't have conservative opinions.

Phoenix98 · Answer

It wouldn’t be a matter of comfort I’m not attracted to bisexual people. So it wouldn’t be a situation I’d be in to begin with.

20yearsolder · Answer

I couldn't blame her for wanting to eat pussy. I love it myself

PeteBy · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem with a bi-sexual wife as long as she shared lol

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I dated a lot of bi sexual women. It’s definitely risky though because if they are likely to cheat. The chances are doubled

AviatorTom · Answer

That would create new opportunities for intimacy with my SO, so yeah, I'd do it.

d3n0939 · Answer

Girls don't have 'straight/ bi' tags. They are just sexual the way they are created (or whatever). Males who are bi, they are just sick

Punk-y · Answer

I wouldn't, but only bc I don't wanna get married, lol. I'm in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend and we are both bisexual

exitseven · Answer

I would have no problem dating someone who was bi but marriage is a big deal

Anonymous · Answer

i have no problem with bisexuals or anyone in the LGBTQ+ scene. but i'm so damn insecure that i would be uncomfortable with it.

fonduegirl · Answer

I dunno why sexualities are such a damn problem.

Ighosh · Answer

Yes - if it was a bisexual man and they treated me right and are at least moderately attractive

Anonymous · Answer

I would if it wasn’t a Legal document involved it would be nice to have Bisexual Female girlfriend then I could Fuck her and her lesbian friends at same time

maximumpower · Answer

Much easier to enter into a relationship with a bi female than bi male... Would make 100% sure there would be a pre-nup, tho.

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Anonymous · Answer

Yes as long as he is the man in both relationships.. If you know what I mean🙃

art84 · Answer

Definitely not as I would not want that person to cheat on me with another women.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

I woukd be a hypocrite if I wasn't since I am bisexual.

Luopio27 · Answer

Of I got one, it would be less work for me. I would get some woman lick her pussy.

Jenny-Marie · Answer

Not at all. I would not be prepared to share my partner.

JohnK123 · Answer

Yeah but only if it was a girl tbh bc I’m still straight lol

Anonymous · Answer

I would NEVER marry someone who was Bisexual.

Anonymous · Answer

I already did.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

AsaKyo · Answer

He'd probably leave me for a dude, so no

RobT312 · Answer

Yes, that sounds super hot.

humanearth · Answer

Sure why not, my wife married me

sheikalana · Answer

I would not date nor marry a bisexual.

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

As long as they don't cheat, idc

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Sure, as long as they were loyal/monogomous

Googlemyahoo · Answer

So long as they don’t mind me being trisexual

nocturnalbreed · Answer

I'm also bisexual, so that won't be a problem

thatrandomguyagain · Answer

provided I wanted to marry. I don't see why not.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

What man wouldn't?

clampfan101 · Answer

Even bicurious would make me nervous.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I would. I have no problem with that at all.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. 100% straight woman only.

nudeNhorny · Answer

Yes, a bisexual girlfriend would be awesome.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

My girlfriend is bisexual

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

Nope mentally ill people

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That’s disgusting

Beardedman1996 · Answer

I’m currently married to a pan sexual potato so 😎

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Not really

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