Girls are similar too, all the attractive girls are prudes, obnoxious and rude. People attract similarly... Attractive guys are rare than attractive girls as women put a huge amount of money into their looks from a very early age. With proper makeup, even average to ugly girls can look attractive.
Absolutely but there is stiff competition for him and the plain fact is that the vast majority of women have no chance.
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To be honest, I've only wanted to get married and settle with a woman since i was 20 but finding the one hasn't been easy. I think people consider me pretty attractive too
There are tons of average and below women and almost no exceptional women. When you can choose from all the junk, why bother choosing? Just hit it and quit it all. Lol.
@bamesjond0069 indeed, i think a lot of women actually over value their actually market value. The amount of women I've come across that prescribe themselves as exceptionally attractive along with all their friends is pretty impressive. They also live fling kinda lifestyles and expect to settle late 30s
They just didn't have their values on point and overvalued their own worth. They only wanted to psrty and do flings. They don't take life seriously till they think they have to in late 30s
Typical woman mistake. Leagues are not defined by physical looks alone. One could be super hot but a broke and dumb man, he would not be in the top league. Just one example. If you can't publicly see what's wrong, just know it's privately something kooky. Crazy foot fetish for example and she's the only one who allows him to make love to her feet 99% of the time. Lmao.
@bamesjond0069 Interesting. My brother is actually a quite handsome guy that had no problems getting girls but he would get ditched after a couple weeks for whatever reason or sometimes ghosted days later. Either that or his relationships only lasted 2-3 months at most. He could never understand what made girls leave or sometimes ghost on him. He always wanted to be a father one day. He didn't want to date forever. His now fiance is the only girl that hasn't ditched him, the only lasting relationship that even made it to engagement.
Yes but he's almost always focused working on himself / walking his path & isn't immediately aware family / kids / marriage is what he wants. Regardless of his appearance this isn't the type of man that indulges or invests in the frivolous.
Think about your „target group“: - who do you want to attract? - what does a guy like that want? - how can you offer that (looks, personality…)? - where/how can you meet guys like this?
Obviously. You are just too superficial to even notice them, or they simply don't like you, cause you are dressing for chads. Your mind is weak, you keep going for chads.
You won't find it is the point. The guy you want doesn't have to want you just because you dont need him. You dont need him but you can have him. Enjoy him or dont. Nobody cares.
I'm not planning on keeping those standards for too long though. By March 2023 (if either I do find him but I'm not what he wants or I don't find him) I get no positive results, I'm going to lower them.
For some plenty, I've been seeing only those two types. Either he's decent, marriage-minded but I'm not attracted too and he has weird habits or the attractive player type. I can't seem to meet an attracted, decent man that's also marriage-minded.
I don't know what to tell you about that. All I know is all my friends were able to find great guys that married them, except for the one that was doing things to sabotage herself.
@going-to-ibiza Talking about vegan foods on most of the conversations, being too much on the ''omg poor little chicken getting killed'' that he won't eat chicken at least once or being so freaking about the dishes and utensils in the kitchen being organized in a very specific way.
@asker: that sounds like a very special guy:) I think a lot more guys are into steaks/bbq, cars, sports, traveling… In which kind of social circles do you look for guys?
@going-to-ibiza It would be great to find a guy that would fit the lifestyle of a family oriented man that likes traveling around (and will travel in the future when he has kids; the future dad and husband that takes us out on vacation).
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Girls are similar too, all the attractive girls are prudes, obnoxious and rude. People attract similarly... Attractive guys are rare than attractive girls as women put a huge amount of money into their looks from a very early age. With proper makeup, even average to ugly girls can look attractive.
Absolutely but there is stiff competition for him and the plain fact is that the vast majority of women have no chance.
To be honest, I've only wanted to get married and settle with a woman since i was 20 but finding the one hasn't been easy. I think people consider me pretty attractive too
There are tons of average and below women and almost no exceptional women. When you can choose from all the junk, why bother choosing? Just hit it and quit it all. Lol.
They had different likes and hobbies?
@bamesjond0069 indeed, i think a lot of women actually over value their actually market value. The amount of women I've come across that prescribe themselves as exceptionally attractive along with all their friends is pretty impressive. They also live fling kinda lifestyles and expect to settle late 30s
They just didn't have their values on point and overvalued their own worth. They only wanted to psrty and do flings. They don't take life seriously till they think they have to in late 30s
@bamesjond0069
I suppose several of those women are looking for love too, not just someone using them for sex.
Well they should seek men in their lane. Not out of their league.
@bamesjond0069
My own older brother just proposed to his girlfriend last week. He is more attractive than her. How she got him? I'll never know.
Typical woman mistake. Leagues are not defined by physical looks alone. One could be super hot but a broke and dumb man, he would not be in the top league. Just one example. If you can't publicly see what's wrong, just know it's privately something kooky. Crazy foot fetish for example and she's the only one who allows him to make love to her feet 99% of the time. Lmao.
@bamesjond0069
Interesting. My brother is actually a quite handsome guy that had no problems getting girls but he would get ditched after a couple weeks for whatever reason or sometimes ghosted days later. Either that or his relationships only lasted 2-3 months at most. He could never understand what made girls leave or sometimes ghost on him. He always wanted to be a father one day. He didn't want to date forever. His now fiance is the only girl that hasn't ditched him, the only lasting relationship that even made it to engagement.
Yeah. Probably something weird or not ideal in the bedroom and she's the only one ok with it. That's all it takes.
Yes but he's almost always focused working on himself / walking his path & isn't immediately aware family / kids / marriage is what he wants. Regardless of his appearance this isn't the type of man that indulges or invests in the frivolous.
Maybe. You have to find someone who is attractive but too busy to be a ho and would like someone to spend their life with.
yes someone to spend my life with and have kids
Think about your „target group“:
- who do you want to attract?
- what does a guy like that want?
- how can you offer that (looks, personality…)?
- where/how can you meet guys like this?
Me. I am married and I do look good.
And I know I am not the only one.
Oh yeah, those men absolutely exist. You gotta make sure you're bringing your A-game though.
No. There's no such thing. Only guys who look like trolls want to commit. 🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
Ummmm yes. Your looking at the wrong guys then. Maybe check your guys I left on delivered list!
Yeah, he's right next to the modelesque woman with the heart of gold. 🤣🤣🤣
So basically he would like a unicorn, something that doesn't exist?
Guys are like women typically they're only as loyal as thier options. If they're in high demand they act accordingly.
I think Adriana Lima was an exception. She divorced because he cheated on her.
Lol to be fair that woman looks like a guy. I honestly thought she was Trans.
Is there such thing as an attractive woman that also commits?
Yes there is. People can still have values even if they have many options.
Then you also answered your question
Well…I have committed to my wife and…(looks in mirror) oh.
You guys are becoming rare breeds nowadays.
About as Rare as An Attractive Girl willing to Approach a Shy Guy.
The problem might be who or what type of man the girl finds attractive.
I find a similar issue with the women I pick. Therefore it’s likely my fault
Obviously. You are just too superficial to even notice them, or they simply don't like you, cause you are dressing for chads. Your mind is weak, you keep going for chads.
Go make your own money and it won't matter who commits.
I actually do have my own money, car, house and business. I'm looking for love and commitment now.
I don't care about money. I have all that but having a life partner would be great.
You won't find it is the point. The guy you want doesn't have to want you just because you dont need him. You dont need him but you can have him. Enjoy him or dont. Nobody cares.
You're just a kid lol.
We are ALL kids.
Of course their is, do you live under a rock or something?
Good luck with your high standards
I'm not planning on keeping those standards for too long though. By March 2023 (if either I do find him but I'm not what he wants or I don't find him) I get no positive results, I'm going to lower them.
Yup, plenty of them.
For some plenty, I've been seeing only those two types. Either he's decent, marriage-minded but I'm not attracted too and he has weird habits or the attractive player type.
I can't seem to meet an attracted, decent man that's also marriage-minded.
I don't know what to tell you about that. All I know is all my friends were able to find great guys that married them, except for the one that was doing things to sabotage herself.
@asker: what would you mean with “weird habits”?
@going-to-ibiza
Talking about vegan foods on most of the conversations, being too much on the ''omg poor little chicken getting killed'' that he won't eat chicken at least once or being so freaking about the dishes and utensils in the kitchen being organized in a very specific way.
Or someone with a foot fetish
@asker: that sounds like a very special guy:)
I think a lot more guys are into steaks/bbq, cars, sports, traveling…
In which kind of social circles do you look for guys?
That's definitely not normal where I'm at.
@going-to-ibiza
It would be great to find a guy that would fit the lifestyle of a family oriented man that likes traveling around (and will travel in the future when he has kids; the future dad and husband that takes us out on vacation).