Am I expecting too much from him too soon? Am I being a bitch?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 1 month and a half so not long. We haven’t had sex yet but I plan too the next time I see him since Theresa lot of sexual tension.

Anyways I was meant to see him on Friday depending on what time I got back from my work party and he said he might wait then he ended up going to other plans. Am I expecting to much , I was expecting him to wait for me to be back rather then going and making plans?

I could have seen him on Sunday his day off work - But he decided to go out with his boys drinking and clubbing. I expected him to see me this day? Again am I expecting to much for him to put me above his friends here? He could have went out with me Saturday night but he went clubbing instead?

Am I expecting too much here considering I’m not his girlfriend? This would make him feel trapped wouldn't it if I go and say something? I haven’t said anything about it but shouldn’t be at least make more time for me than his friends or is it too early days for that to happen?

[OlderAndWiser]

He's just not that into you. If you had his undivided attention, he would be making plans to see you soon, bt he's not. Having sex wth him probably won't change that, except that he'll see you as a convenient outlet for sex when no one else is available.

[Asker]

So am I not expecting too much to soon then? I thought I was being overly dramatic since my friend said I am? I’m not sure if he’s just doing this to have sex with me and taking me out. But I thought maybe he’s not into me but he’s spent literally 600 pound on me already and asked me to be his girlfriend but I said it’s too soon.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he took "it's too soon" as a rejection and he is now giving you some of the same.

[Asker]

I’m not sure though since he’s been acting the same anyways? It’s just over the weekend this always happens he gets insanely drunk and then goes out and I’m pretty sure he has sex with different females too since I got told. Is it too soon to say anything, it is isn’t it

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you really want to sign up to be #3 on is list of girls to fuck when he's horny? Or do you want a guy for a monogamous relationship?

[boggboss]

U keep saying u expect things but do u guys communicate actually meeting up

[Asker]

I mean I usually wait for him to plan something because he’s the one who drives. There’s never been a time he’s cancelled when we have a solid plan we have a plan but I don’t know if I expect too much. Like I expected him to wait for me to be free and see me thay day? And the day he went clubbing I expected him to see me rather than his friends?

[boggboss]

But why did u expect him to without saying anything

[Asker]

Because I just thought he’d be smart enough to think about seeing me first lol? Like I wanted to see what he’d do without saying anything

[boggboss]

That has nothing to do with being smart he could make the same argument and say he expected u to set out a time to meet up or not go to your party and instead chill with him

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like he still playing the field, so you should too.

[Asker]

Is it too soon to say anything about how I feel!

[Wise4myage]

Yes, its way to soon, so be patient.

[spartan55]

You aren't putting out, so you aren't a priority.

[Asker]

It’s only been 3 dates though isn’t that too soon? I was actually planning too on the fourth but he does not need to know that lol

[spartan55]

Meh... he isn't interested

[In_Trance]

Yeah