I recently started seeing this girl, we agreed that we weren’t looking for anything serious and we would just hang out and have fun. I am not ready for a relationship for a variety of reasons, and I also don’t think a relationship with this girl would be healthy for me. I thought we had a good understanding. She asked me to tell her if I was going to sleep with someone else, and I told her the same. She would regularly tell me about other guys she is talking to and that made me think we were in a good spot with our situation.
Yesterday, she asked me if I had any luck talking to anyone after she told me about her failed chats with shitty guys, and I said I was talking to a few people but nothing has come of it yet. And she immediately asked if we should stop our meet ups because I am talking to other people. That caught me off guard, because she is always telling me about the guys she’s talking to. And I said we could, but I am not sure where these others would go, and they may not go anywhere and it’s up to her. She then started saying how other guys have led her on for years and that people only use her for sex. And I just don’t know what to do, I feel terrible because I tried everything I could to not lead her on, and be very up front with everything. We have only been meeting up for a few weeks, it’s been fun but this is too much for me. I told her we can stop having sex and just hangout if she wants. I am pretty sure, in hindsight, that she was telling me about the other guys thinking I may get jealous or possessive? I just don’t know what to do.
Yesterday, she asked me if I had any luck talking to anyone after she told me about her failed chats with shitty guys, and I said I was talking to a few people but nothing has come of it yet. And she immediately asked if we should stop our meet ups because I am talking to other people. That caught me off guard, because she is always telling me about the guys she’s talking to. And I said we could, but I am not sure where these others would go, and they may not go anywhere and it’s up to her. She then started saying how other guys have led her on for years and that people only use her for sex. And I just don’t know what to do, I feel terrible because I tried everything I could to not lead her on, and be very up front with everything. We have only been meeting up for a few weeks, it’s been fun but this is too much for me. I told her we can stop having sex and just hangout if she wants. I am pretty sure, in hindsight, that she was telling me about the other guys thinking I may get jealous or possessive? I just don’t know what to do.
