I am done with my bsc in nursing in a few weeks, but dancing is my hobby and sometimes we have gigs, not that often though and it’s been a while since the last time, but it can be at day events, concerts or parties.
Last night I was dancing at a party. I asked my partner to come with me, I thought it would be nice. I could add people to the guestlist and get free drinks and I arranged so that my mom could sleep with our 4 year old son.
He came there with me. At first he looked kinda upset that it was almost like a nightclub and that there was that many people. He said this is not my level and it is gonna be the last time I dance like that.
Then he was okay. I had to dance, me and my dance partner (a girl), and we did a 5 min show.
After we danced he was also okay, I stayed with him but also danced a bit with my girlfriends and it was all good.
After when we left he was complaining that my dance partner was flirting with a guy and he thought they would go home together. He said she is not serious, that I have to teach her about having a comitted relationship, that everything she does reflects on me and it doesn’t look good, that she looks cheap like that and these guys are only users and get the wrong idea and also get that idea about me when they see us together.
The night was okay fun. I am tired of all these complaints. I don’t drink, we didn’t dance anything sexual or anything bad and we also made good money (close to 300 $) from just a few minutes of dance. What my friend does or doesn’t do is not my problem, and she didn’t do anything crazy.
He didn’t tell me even once that it was a nice show, didn’t film it or told me that I looked good. I put in a lot of effort. Maybe it is shallow that I am thinking about this part. I just wanted us to have fun together and I tried so hard to also make it a good night for him and with movie before and everything. I feel like he doesn’t put any effort in and these days we are barely talking. I don’t know what to do.
