So I’m 40 almost 41 and my boyfriend is 21. We’ve been dating just a few months it’s going great!! Tell me your honest opinion about an older woman dating a guy 20 years younger!!
I support you all the way. Leonardo DiCaprio is in his 40s dating women in their 20s left and right... Society always tries to normalize it for a man so why to them in my opinion, would it not be okay for you? Their just haters if they have anything negative to say! My boyfriend is 20 years old and I'm 24 and I know its not much of a difference but my ex boyfriend was 18 when I was 23 as well. I'd date younger guys, bang younger guys any day of the week than a guy twice my age to be honest and if he makes you happy and you both are attracted to one another, it's your life! I wish you and your boyfriend the best. Also don't think so much about your age, you can feel as young as you are inside. It doesn't seem to bother your boyfriend either:)
the only bad thing is younger guys like it rougher... i mean their oral sex... other than that i wish you well i'm sure it's nicer to have younger than older... i can't really get younger guys interested in me.
it is viewed a little differently but it all up to you and how you make it work. One of my buddies who was 20 at the time was dating a 40 year old he worked with. she would treat him like a mother because he wasn't at the maturity level as her. Now you can make this call for yourself but in their case the women wanted the stamina and energy the younger guy had but when it came to life experience he was lacking which tips the balance. regardless they had a kid and built their family together.
If it works out, then it's fine. It'd be something very different if the role was reversed. (He 41, you 21).
But it's more about the connection, life experience etc. And also > your intentions and attitude.
You both seem to have the same attitude and intentions. He likes to have sex a lot and you do the same. As a result > strong feelings.
So yeah I think it is cool. The society doesn't really care that much these days
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You're consenting adults, I don't see a problem there at all. But I would advise you to remember that he probably won't be with you forever and just enjoy the ride.
Lmao! Why are people so dumb?… I personally don’t care if you are dating a younger man and I think it is actually really hot that you found a guy who is so well suited for your relationship. That age difference is not that unusual. And frankly I wish it was one you both could easily enjoy without all the stupid culture of the world telling you what or what not to enjoy.
I see nothing wrong with it other than there is the risk when you both grow older he may lose interest. Of course in every relationship there is the risk that one partner may lose interest regardless of the ages.
Well to me personally I would enjoy dating someone close to my age arrange rather than have a huge gap. I want to have someone on the same level and on the same experiences of life so we can maturely communicate , share and relate with each other effectively.
It immediately seems a bit desperate to me. As unfair as it seems, when an older woman is dating a far younger guy it seems that she's just trying to hold onto some semblance of youth.
Sounds like you are a cougar. You are a consenting adult but you'd think you'd want to date somebody closer to your age. Now the 20-year-old can maintain and please you more than a 40-something or 50 something year old man.
enjoy it for as long as it lasts. hopefully ur both realistic about the future.
Eventually your boyfriend who is 20 years younger will want to get married and have kids. This relationship is clearly not sustainable in the long run. He won't hang around forever
If you are happy about it that's all you need, for example I like hot mature women as well...
Go for it. Love doesn't have such a restriction but do understand you will lead the relationship. Don't expect him to lead the relationship
any person can be age but their exact age is irrelevant if their maturity level is on the same page as you. wish you two the best
Have to be having some great sex which is always awesome congratulations to both of you
i assume he was the one who asked you out, hit on you
There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
I wish you continued happiness!
How old is your youngest child
Whatever works for you.
Love is love no matter the consenting age.
Lol who is he
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