My wife and i were in a restaurant last night (date night, YAY). Seated next to us was a group of women (note this is absolutely not about bashing women, its just the facts of the story). They were all having a good time, which is a good thing. The youngest of them was bragging very loudly about being married and sleeping around on him, and spent the entire time she was there talking trash on her husband. And the entire group was like "You go girl" and the like. Have we really entered a society where this sort of thing is encouraged, Where its alright to brag loudly about this in public? I feel sorry for her poor husband, who doesn't deserve this kind of betrayal.
And before some dumb-shit says "Yeah right and they stood up and clapped " Or "You should not have been eavesdropping" This did happen, My wife and i said nothing, because its not our business, And they were seated literally 12 inches from us, It was impossible not to hear it. And again, this is not about women, because i would feel the same if it were a group of guys talking about this. This whole situation makes me lose faith in humanity. It just lends credence to the fact that young people simply dont see marriage as relationships as worth anything to them any more, More or less its something they feel is okay to wipe their asses with and throw away.
What do you think gag?
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Marriage is a resume filler as are 2 kids but no longer a binding contract. And, like you say it’s not only about women.
From my experience, it’s the 50-55 apartment sitting, in same high-rise where his headquarters is, a 24 year old black haired, porcelain skin, blue-eyed thick but super thin and shapely 5’8 “girly”.
Seen same sort of thing in Asia but 40 year old with wife and family in Texas. Tells me, money to help out family for some “don’t have to use my hand” pleasuring from her. Seems to work well for them but a much more conservative and discreet cultural handling…. no acting the fool bragging.
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That is gross.
But don't lose faith. Not all and all that crap. But I don't see how being defeatist about it would help at all, really.
Here's the irony from what I'm assuming is your perspective: young people aren't taught to value marriage and fidelity. Older people get discouraged. "What does it say about the future?" Well, you can teach them now... that's an option; don't let that bleak future come to pass. "Yeah, but kids nowadays..." So you're giving up.
Because I'm me, I would have done the loud whisper thing and said "that's gross".
Thanks for that, I appreciate your response
Hmm, I just think she has had too much to drink.. in answer to the loud o we share. And then I’d be left thinking there must be a long back story to why the other women were happy to accept and celebrate her behaviour. I have seen this type of beg before though and it was gross.
agreed. it basically ruined our dinner. We took our food to go..