After 2 failed relationship, I've taken my time to analyze what went wrong. This is what I've come up with:
- I was always available for them, even if one of them woke me up at 1-3 am just to talk to me about trivial topics. I had work the next day but ok, I never gave an attitude. I once called very early on his b-day and he didn't like it; said it was too early and to call back later.
- I was giving them meals too often and sometimes overdoing on the elaboration.
- Sometimes if they were broke, I helped out by giving them some money. They paid back eventually.
- Lastly, there was one time I was helped my 2nd boyfriend cleaning and dusting his appartments.
All that for nothing. Is this the female version of the ''nice guy''?
