My boyfriend is just never available. Is it normal I feel this way in a relationship? guys only.

[feliciano1993]

i feel that at times, my boyfriend is just never available. he doesn't call me when he says he will and most of the time, he doesn't text me first. I know he's a guy and guys won't always be affectionate, but I feel alone most of the time. we both work and he plays a lot of basketball and goes to studios to rap. but, am I being unfair because I feel like he doesn't have time for me?

[ray19]

It sounds like he might be cheating. Some guys aren't that affectionate, but he's barely paying you any attention. It is normal to feel the way you feel, and you should tell him you feel alone. Please don't ask him if he is cheating, because if he's not, he might end the relationship. Just tell him how you feel and that you'd like to spend more time with him. I hope it works out for you. :)

[Midnigh-driver]

You should tell him to stop ignoring you to go rap. what's more important you or a basketball game. And if you say that youl call you better call. If he's not willing to give up some time for you he's not worth dealing with dump him!

[Shaun]

Tell him how his behavior makes you feel. The not calling as promised is very rude and I wouldn't put up with that for long.

[SnackG]

No. It sounds like he need to give you more attention. "Guys aren't affectionate sometimes." I'm all over doing that. lol I never seem to want to stop.

[Dom163]

Tell him to make time for you a relationship in which you aren't ever seeing each other and live nearby isn't a relationship it's just unnecessary stress