So we visited my partners parents for 2 weeks over Christmas and New year. We haven't even seen mine yet, it's been a couple of days and she is sad every day saying how much she misses them. I get it, it's family and all but it's a bit full on at times.
Either way, our anniversary is coming up next month and we were planning to take the money we had next month and go away for a week somewhere nice, we planned it a good while ago and reckoned we would have just enough to do it properly. Now she wants to bring her mum over for a week in the same month, which requires paying for her mums plane ticket, me picking her up from the airport and dropping back, plus money to do things while here.
It's affecting how much we have for our anniversary get away and what we will be able to actually do. I already paid half and spent a lot to go visit her parents via ferry and a 7 hour drive for Christmas which ended up with her dad ruining Christmas, shouting at her mum, ripping a door off it's hinges and ruining her brothers birthday party.
Just wondered if I am being unreasonable as its her family to visit... or not as it will affect our anniversary and after the Christmas we had which was 2 weeks... not going to lie I'm back to work and didn't get one, next chance of a break is this one, any opinions/advice?
Either way, our anniversary is coming up next month and we were planning to take the money we had next month and go away for a week somewhere nice, we planned it a good while ago and reckoned we would have just enough to do it properly. Now she wants to bring her mum over for a week in the same month, which requires paying for her mums plane ticket, me picking her up from the airport and dropping back, plus money to do things while here.
It's affecting how much we have for our anniversary get away and what we will be able to actually do. I already paid half and spent a lot to go visit her parents via ferry and a 7 hour drive for Christmas which ended up with her dad ruining Christmas, shouting at her mum, ripping a door off it's hinges and ruining her brothers birthday party.
Just wondered if I am being unreasonable as its her family to visit... or not as it will affect our anniversary and after the Christmas we had which was 2 weeks... not going to lie I'm back to work and didn't get one, next chance of a break is this one, any opinions/advice?
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