How to not be depressed about being a single woman and childess at 32?

[Anonymous]

I feel like the unwanted leftover woman. The only thing I can say positive is that at least I'm not divorced and a single mother by 30 like some people I know who got married in their 20s and it ended up a disaster. But I saw those relationships failing from the beginning and tried to warn them. But still there are a lot of good relationships I know that ended up in happy marriages and now they have beautiful kids. I can't help but to feel envious of the good marriages. I put myself out there a lot in my 20s and even asked men out but still always rejected or led on. How can I not feel depressed? 😔

[dragoblack]

I feel you on the depression. I'm 30, never been in a relationship, only ever beenon a couple dates, with almost no women finding me attractive in a dating economy that has unrealistic expectations and runs away when things are inconvenient.
Best thing i have found is to work on yourself, do what you enjoy work on your health, exercise to stay in shape, learn skills, self-reflect to understand your own insecurities & toxic behaviors to work on overcoming them, and just keep yourself busy.
It's best not to worry about society norms and what society thinks you should do. Just try to enjoy life while you can.

[Anonymous]

It happens. I remember thinking I would be married one day. Then I turned 25. And I said, "OK maybe I'm going to marry late". Then I turned 35 and the I thought, "I'm running out of time". Then I turned 45 and I said, "well, I guess I'm staying single". Cause there's really no point anymore. I just look at it now as if God wanted me to be married he would have put her in my life. Perhaps he feels i serve him better single. I don't know if it helps but that's how I deal with it.

[Avicenna]

You still have time to have kids. My ex and I had three kids born when she was 34, 36 and 39.

[HighValue]

Create a dating profile. State your intentions. Include in the first line of your profile, "I am fine with signing a prenuptial agreement." That should increase your odds.

At your age if you ever do want a family, I'd suggest making finding a compatible partner your priority now.

[Tyrael]

I'm single and childless at 34, and I don't even have a good career to show for it so fuck it I guess I'll just die 🤷

I don't dwell on it honestly lol

[Ryfyle]

Yeah the Single moms are still coming out on top on this. Their Genetics will still live on and somebody will remember them when they die.

[Asker]

Yeh I agree but why do people put down singie mothers so much?

[Ryfyle]

Crime.

[KrakenAttackin]

There are TONS of good men out there, if you can't land one, that's on you.

[Asker]

I'm a black woman and it seems a lot of men pick us last.

[Anonymous]

If you want something badly enough you'll get off your ass and make it happen.

[Kyyroz]

Seriously, there's tons of good men out there who would love to be married.

[EaterPeter]

Counseling, positive affirmations. You are doing good.

[Anonymous]

Aww. I would meet up with you if i could and make you feel better 🤗

[Jmmmfi4]

Thats absolutely false... girls don't get rejected