I am getting back into dating and I find a LOT of the men talk to seem to have a predominant interest in sex. Some can hold interesting conversations about other things & others can not.
For the record I haven't had sex with any of them, usually with go for a movie or a coffee.
I know men are "programmed" to think about sex so that leads to my question - is someone whose predominant thought is sex, does he have value as a potential long-term partner?
Even if he can hold an interesting conversation, a respectable job, etc. it honestly makes me wonder how faithful he might be when his mind is sex, sex, sex.
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Well the opposite issue is a man without a healthy sex drive will leave you hanging a lot. Would you be happy with sex once a month? It does happen.
It's also a male dating strategy. Men who try for sex and you say no, know you're a good girl because they know there are bad girls. While a man who never tries is just kind of dating like a dope with no care if you're easy or not.
I'd go by whoever puts in the time with no sex is clearly the most interested in you. See who keeps putting in effort for the longest. That's your best bet.
sex is how a man gets a genuine connection with somebody aka phyical touch.
because even for you girls there's a itch a coffee date can't scratch.
You need more things in common that you enjoy doing together than just sexual stuff if you want it to last long term.