why is it bad? its only intercourse. For women it doesn't hurt compared when their man develop feelings for another girl. Why get mad about it. its nothing. its only physical.
Lets assume for the sake of reason that you are right.
In this hypothetical where she is perfectly fine with it as long as emotions are respected, why would you not let her know beforehand? Or ask for a more open arrangement? If your assumption is right that meets both the criteria of messing around and her feelings being acknowledged.
Continuing this hypothetical, if she would be okay with it when asked, and you still do not get a go-ahead, does that not suddenly hint at you having a need to hide? And if you are hiding it despite her acceptance, does that not logically mean there is more going on? Why else would you hide it after all.
So whether we view women as you described or as human beings cheating still remains wrong.
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Because cheating on your girl is disgusting and disrespectful, you claim you love her but you clearly don’t if you want to sleep around, a woman isn’t a sex doll that you can just f**k whenever you please she has feelings and emotions, you wouldn’t like it if your girl slept around with loads of men while with you would you? So why would you do it with her?
This is why men get a bad name, and why women are worried to get with a guy due to the fear of him cheating on her.
If you get with a girl love on her treat her like a queen don’t ruin it by sleeping around.
Because sex is an intimate act to us, that WE share because we love you. We don't see it the same. Please see it from our perspective, not only yours.
That'd be like if I gave you a present I thought really hard about, and you regifted it to someone else. And then you say, "It's just a material item."
It’s disloyal, disrespectful and generally seen as a disgusting thing to do.
The majority of human beings practice monogamy.
If you want to be a whorebag without also being single, you have to agree on that before getting in the relationship or else you’re a cheater.
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Im pretty sure by the time you actually start dating someone you'll know what they expect from a relationship. If you have polyamorous tendencies find someone who also has polyamorous tendencies instead of wasting your time with a person who has already made it clear to you that they are expecting a monogamous relationship.
Thats one of the first things you should find out about the person you plan on dating.
Because you are choosing to be disloyal. Being in a relationship is having mutual respect for one another. Unless you are in an open relationship you should respect the partner you are with. I know for a fact that if your girl cheated on you you’d say that it’s different and that’s stupid. If you step out she has all right to leave you and step out on you as well. If you don’t like the idea of your women cheating on you why would you do it.
They’ve created a bond. A chemical bind with that person
Women take sex way to serious, they think if a guy has sex with them they own the guy
Their brain is built different
They are emotional creatures.
Most people dont like the idea of sharing their partner with other people and that’s completely normal
Unless youve talked and agreed about it then it’s not disgusting
They don't get mad they are disrespected and nobody likes to be disrepspected.
Wooooooowwwww...
Keep telling yourself that.
It's a violation of a trust.
I fucked your girl earlier.
That's cheating
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