What makes a guy loose interest in his girlfriend or friends with benefits?

[that_one_girll]

What are the reasons he looses interest?
Is it always the girls fault?
Can a guy do it to himself? Self-Sabotage?

[ShiftingMonke]

The reasons to call off any relationship with a woman are near infinite; but I'll operate on the assumption that the failure was an unseen or sudden thing that wasn't expected (i. e. if he caught you cheating, it's obvious why he would call it off, etc.)

For an actual partner:

• He may have learned about am incident of your past that he doesn't care for.

• He may be seeing someone behind your back and decided he no longer wished to be with you, either out of guilt or to pursue the side woman.

• He may be going through a particularly tough time in his life and doesn't wish to bring you down or burden you with it.

• The qualities he once liked about you are now upsetting you, but he doesn't want to start a fight about it and he's already considered moving on.

For a friends with benefits:

• Among the previous listed, he may also realize he's getting feelings and doesn't want those feelings.

• Realizes you're more trouble than you're worth.

• Decided he wants an actual girlfriend but doesn't think you're capable of fulfilling that role.

Just a very short few, hope it helps!

[Anonymous]

Well, I never lost interest in my girlfriend because she was the love of my life and I would've died for her.
But I've had "friends with the Benedicts" I've lost interest in before. Usually because they started getting weird, flaked on plans too many times, or said something I didn't like.

It's not really a big deal when the person you're supposed to be having fun with isn't very fun anymore and you decide to break things off.

[Finchie40]

Everyone is different , so it’s hard to really say what makes him loose interest , most common for a guy to loose interest is if she is selfish. Most guys’ can’t stand selfish girls’ that think they do no wrong , she might be choosing her friends’ over him and most guys’ don’t tolerate that , especially from all the horror stories they hear about girls’ night and girls’ trips , which sadly is true to a certain extent. Or she isn’t as sexual as he wants her to be , that could be a reason he looses interest in her , Guy’s look at sex differently than girls’ do for the most part. Lack of sex in a relationship can make a guy lose interest immediately. Another reason , he might loose interest in her , is because he met someone else that he likes more than her. Maybe that someone else is prettier or has a better personality than his girlfriend or FWB’s does Most guys’ want a girl that makes him her top priority , if he doesn’t feel like a top priority to her , he will lose interest and think he deserves someone better. Especially if she bitches and complains and nags all the time , he will lose interest. Most guys’ want happiness in a relationship, not misery , So if she is always negative about things and stressed about things and always complaining about things , he more than likely will lose interest in her. A stressful gir isn’t a fun relationship. We all know nothing is perfect in this world , so to hear someone constantly bitching and complaining and being negative on things , can easily make a guy lose interest. I dumped girls’ that were constantly negative about everything , that could just relax and say fuck it and realize it’s not the end of the world. I only like girls’ that look at life more positive than negative, that want to be my team partner , not my enemy. I want a girl that works with me , not against me. That prioritizes me the same way I do for her. That’s a girl I will consider being in a relationship with. I had my fair share of selfish negative girls’ and I was glad to see them go. Life is too short to be with someone that is constantly miserable and negative about things , when shit happens we deal with it together , not point fingers saying it’s your fault , which sadly a lot of people do. Learn to point fingers at yourself before pointing fingers at your partner.

[RHK36]

Depends on the person. Just ask them if you really want an answer because you're not getting one by guessing.

[Alex8736]

i automatically lose interest in friends with benefits's if they are starting to date someone and getting serious where i wouldn't never want to be a cock blocker

[Anonymous]

You realize it's called "friends with benefits" right?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

She gets too clingy

[Allday4]

It’s boring there’s no longer any thrill