I don't really mean do what you want with whom you want, but one where there is a certain amount of restrictions like the above, with approval or to your own rules
How many of you if given the chance would have an open relationship?
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No, that be heart poison. The number of things that can go wrong are immense. There's a reason for "traditional" values... in general to provide a family foundation which to raise offspring.
Maybe some people don't have the same emotional attachments, sense of security, or values. There may be cases in humanity where there are other organizations and they work for those people, either because of whom they were raised to be.
It makes no sense to me when offspring showup, and whom is whose? All the sacrifice required, finance. If one guy is just getting the "wookie wookie" and the home husband is getting some of that and all the difficulties of the relationship that are part of life (caring for ill spouse, prioritize kids, arguments about this and that, etc)... why would he stay in relationship? It just doesn't make sense other than a way to fill peoples selfish voids their made cannot provide, and because they have attachment difficulties. I can see that, but it's got risks.
no thanks.
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I am interested in taking an intimate one-one relationship and trashing the bond by throwing some other body into the middle of it. Unhappiness and unfullfillment will not change because you throw another body into the mix. It is Fools thinking and doing.
It is known to have many benefits and I've thought about this concept, many times before whilst being single.. But every time I'm in a relationship, it usually ends up being different, dye to being in love with that person and how I'd feel about "sharing" them with someone else, etc.
But, I will also say, that I have thought long and hard over the past few years about remaining open to these ideas, down the road in long term relationships, and whether you would introduce different stimuli.
For example: threesomes/multiple partners, cuckold, polyamory etc.
It works for a lot of couples if you remain honest, with respect, boundaries and communication!!
For me, it would take immense trust, I wouldn't be able to do it with someone casual/short term, or with someone I had issues with. 😊💯🥰
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Im sure everyones had that “chance”. Its just up to them to be about it or not. I ain't about that life. If i EVER gave in to an open relationship, I would still only be physical with one person. The other person would just be there to meet whatever emotional support that I don’t feel I’m getting from the other. So that said, me being in an open relationship would seem kind of pointless because although i’d flirt with both, its not gonna appear that I’m dating both since one is just there for “occasional advice or cuddles”
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Not in a jillion years. If I want to have sex wth more than one sexual partner, why get into a "committed" relationship? And why call it a "committed" relationship?
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If it was okay with my SO, sure, we'd have an open relationship.
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No way. That is not a relationship.
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Never.
If they want to be open, it becomes closed. Open relationships are inly championed by those who wish to cheat by admitting their intention to cheat, and my low value individuals trying to keep their current partner from leaving them by satusfying their desires.
The only person whi wins in thus scenario us the sude whi gets the sex without the loyalty. Man or woman, they're cheaters either way.
Cheating the system by trying to rewrite the rules is still cheating and disloyalty.
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Thankfully I have an open relationship. It’s not for everyone but I think it’s the best since I enjoy sex so much and I love showing others the skills I possess. It’s a great way for our relationship to stay fresh. However the only reason it works is because we keep no secrets from each other and disclose all our encounters. We love each other and trust each other. We don’t seek love from others and only the friendships and physical needs we have with others. Like many friendships you have the ones that are good caring listeners and the ones that are always the loud fun ones. But you can’t expect the caring one to always be fun and vice versa. A spouse is the same way. We rely on each other for so much as a life partner but sometimes we can’t always rely on them for everything. Thus we allow the other to seek what they need in others.
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I actually have a permissive attitude towards being cheated on, so I would be okay with this. Basically, if It's just a one night stand, go ahead. She doesn't need to ask permission nor even tell me about it. if It's a regular booty call, I would appreciate being informed, no need to drop names as I can respect privacy. If It's a full time affair with feelings and emotions, I would likely be supportive, however I would prefer she marry me before hand. I would be insecure she would run off with the other guy, so marrying me would ensure she stayed. Otherwise, have at it.
initially, I would have mixed feelings of jealousy while simultaneously being turned on. Yep, I'm one of those types who not only like being cheated on, fantasies about this, so the jealousy wouldn't last.
So, yeah, I actually want to be cheated on. to the point where I would never end a relationship because of it.
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No. I am too territorial to grant access to others into my wife, home, cars etc. I would also feel like a loser with my neighbors and others knowing as well. Why would I allow that? No. I would rather not be married then and just play the field.
I have known a couple of couples now who have that lifestyle and it caused havoc about a year into it. I am not sure they still do it actually. One was an employee of mine and I think the wife wanted to screw the boss. My wife never liked her from day one so that would have been bad plus I was uninterested even though she looked like a decent F*ck. There is a long story about this which boggles my mind.
The other couple are poly and one is trans now. They had a huge fight about one of the people who comes over for “date night” after about a year into the relationship. There may have been a third couple but that was a very long time ago and they may have been just into femdom. That was a wacky night.
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Everyone to themselves….
But end of day it’s like if you like the look of he/she and end up in bed with them that’s what it’s all about isn’t it…?
Is it sexual or for company…?
But if it’s company it be more like a friend then isn’t it…?
But for me that’s like a bit on the side ….
If you’re single and want to be the bit on the side maybe….
But if I’m in a relationship then no ….
That’s the commitment you both have with each other…..
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My preference is an open relationship. I realized in my last one that it was the only way for me to live long-term.
I want a relationship where my girlfriend/wife is allowed to have sex with others however I have to stay loyal to her. I am completely willing and have gone through enough in my life that I am sure that this is what I want. The only rules I would desire is that I can veto on my own friends. I wouldn't mind her having sex with specific ones I trust however I wouldn't be happy for her to have free reign on my friends.
I have some other criteria that I would prefer to have which are optional but these are the absolute necessities,
If you would like to know some of these preferences you can message me.
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i dont cheat in relashionships am sick of being cheated on in relashionships or used for sex or money or 1 was mostly to pissed tae go out and a decided when i broke up with the last ex i decided to stay single all i get is used am happy with my hands fingers buttplugs vibirator 2 dildos iam also not a sleep arounder either a gave that shit up when i grew up
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I personally couldn't due to jealousy of the other person but some can. I would say assess your family needs I always say if young children or teens in the house this can be very dysfunctional if children left home then maybe something that suits for you. Only trouble is explaining to family and who has who on family events birthdays Christmas it can get very complicated. Who would they live with are you the main and they the second as in they live with you or are you happy to be the second. As someone always will be the second. Its very complicated I personally would stay away it can end very toxic
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I'm already in an open relationship. My boyfriend and I have friends with benefits and extracurricular partners outside of our relationship, but that doesn't weaken the love between us, we're together more often than we're apart and we're both healthy.
Hell, last year we had a live-in girlfriend that we shared.
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No. I’m firmly monogamous. I enjoy that exclusivity and the commitment it carries, it’s never been a struggle for me to not sleep around of someone I’ve promised my devotion and loyalty to. So I have no desire to find a workaround that would mean I don’t have to feel guilty about it. I don’t want to be the first man I want to be the first and ONLY and I offer the same in return to my woman.
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Definitely not for me. I value the love between me and my woman. I wouldn't want her having sex/being intimate with another man, so I wouldn't even think about doing it to her. If a woman is okay with me having sex with other women, in my eyes she doesn't love me the way I want to be loved.
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I was, and would be, and the only REAL problem with it would be to 'lose' your partner to another man/woman. I liked my one SO to have sex with other men, but sometimes she seemed to get to 'involved' with that person along with the sex. She would tell me if she was 'hot' for someone, and I even encouraged her to meet one guy who sent her a 'large" 'dick pic in email. She did meet him, jacked him off in her car, and then later he went to her house, but did not have a condom and she backed out.
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Thats the only relationship i go for
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All my slaves are emotionally and sexually involved with one partner and have the knowledge and consent of the only person that matters, their Lord and Master Bean2k21.
It's important to communicate openly and honestly with slaves about my desires and boundaries, and I require trust, communication, and emotional maturity. If they can't learn to speak when spoken to, then the decision to pursue an open relationship with someone else is their choice.
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No f*cking way.
Open relationships are pure, shallow trash. You want to get laid with everyone and have an SO in your life at the same time. And you actually believe that it's gonna work and you can have it all on a long term. Like WTF.
For me it's just another futile self-justification of greedy, selfish, indecisive and morally immature people.
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I would.
Ever since my one and only decided to leave this world without me, I don't give a single shit about being in love and having something special with one person.
She's still and will always be the only one for me, but with my luck I still have another 60 years on this planet until I meet up with her again. So any relationship I get into in the future will be a meaningless fling where it's ok to fuck other people until we inevitably get sick of eachother -
Not really interested in that. I would entertain various threesome or couples activities but even then, it would never be a swap or anything like that (and that wouldn’t be the norm, rather the exception / occasionally). It would be sharing experiences together/ always in contact with each other.
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