Why does he never take me on dates?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy for 2 months. Not once during these 2 months has he made time to take me out? He’s took me to a hotel, came to mine or just to a field but never a date? I have so much love to give and I wanan spoil him and make him feeel good and give him loads but he dosent do any of that for me? He is not broke he has so much money and it’s not even that I am with him to go on dates, it’s just bothering me since i feel it’s disrespectful taking me to a field or a hotel and never a date? I am quite upset but is it too much if I ask him? I really like him and I just wanna give my all to him but I feel stupid doing this if he’s not doing anything for me.

[Guy13]

When a woman gives it up the 1st-3rd date then we do not trust her if she's that easy. We will never spend money on something we will not keep or fully commit too. If he is not letting you into his life and it seems to be a sex driven relationship then you should not expect it to be anymore than it is now.

[HelpMe06]

If I were in this position and I genuinely liked the guy. I would communicate that you aren’t going to sleep with him anymore unless he has the decency to take you out properly. If he says no then you’ll know your answer and that he only wants one thing from you. Don’t let some of these other mean comments get to you. You’re only human and wanting more from someone isn’t asking much at all!

[WaterIsland]

+1 to this. Couldn’t have said it better. Stay true to yourself and what you want. That isn’t asking too much.

[jshm2]

You're not the brightest.

He took you on a date to a hotel, came to yours and to a field. But you were too simple to come onto him.

Pretty sure he knows you're thick as a brush.

[HelpMe06]

This comment is literally so unnecessary. How is she not bright? Women have sex too you know. Unless you only fuck guys then maybe you’re not aware of that. If a woman likes a guy ofc she’s going to get horny too and sleep with him. It’s not dumb to think that a guy can at least organise a proper date. No need to be so harsh

[Zandoval]

Did you have sex with him?

[Asker]

Yeah I’ve had sex with him like 4 times

[Zandoval]

When did you first start sleeping with him?

[Asker]

I slept with him the first time I met him

[Zandoval]

Right. Well it makes sense now. He's just using you for sex and thinks of you as a sex toy. You gave it up pretty fast too so yeah.

[AnonGiraffe]

Sorry but if he isn’t courting you then you’re just sex for him.

[Anonymous]

We fuck vagina's 😘
Don't waste time in dates..