Would you prefer your partner to be the same height?

[Anonymous]

Nice!

Never!

[TenderFantasy]

Yes that would be cute! I don't want to date someone that's so tall that my neck hurts whenever I gotta kiss him or be affectionate! And if I could help it, I would prefer he not being shorter than me. I guess it's the societal pressure type of thing lol.

[Asker]

Yes compatibility

[Asker]

Yes I think it's all nurture. Not wanting to be with someone doesn't mean men or women won't find you attractive. People find all types of heights and builds attractive, but wanting to actually be with them is a different story.

[sheenagwapa]

i am allergic to romantic love atm especially when it comes to western men but i'm fine with Asian men particularly my fellow Filipinos. i don't wanna date with similar height unless i'm wearing heels. i prefer raw height the man is taller. but this is just a general rule i can be in love with people on a wheelchair. love is love. you don't choose.

[Berethor]

I would never prefer it, a woman should be shorter, but that said, it's not a dealbreaker to me.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[suzzieQ]

Why should women be shorter? In many species the females are usually larger.

[Berethor]

We mammals, not arthropods, men are on average 5 inches taller, so it's what normal.

[suzzieQ]

Thats just an average, I still dont see why you think that women should be shorter.

[Berethor]

You really stubborn don't you? that's human sexual dimorphism, tallness is masculine.

[suzzieQ]

I was just asking... but that doesn't make much sense, so if you think that tallness is masculine. Then you think that women like Julia Stegner, Elle Macpherson, Pauline Hoarau, Kate Grigorieva, Tiiu Kuik, and Ana Hickmann are masculine?
And men like, Kevin Hart Martin Freeman, Bruno Mars, Billy Joel, Scott Caan, Danny Trejo, and Tom Cruise are feminine?

[Berethor]

Long list, Tom Cruise is the face of Scully Box Trope, therefore his Height is surely a Flaw.

[suzzieQ]

oh so short men are a flaw now? Why do you think that?

[Berethor]

Yea pretty big flaw, don't heard about the manlet meme? most women want a tall man.

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/manlet

[suzzieQ]

Why do you think that a man being 5'6" is a flaw? You never explained why you believe that?

[Berethor]

I explain but you don't listen, short men look unmasculine, 5'6" is below average height.

[Asker]

Most women wanting a tall man doesn't mean they don't find shorter guys attractive. They may even find them more attractive lol. But wanting to be with someone due to social norms is another story lol

[Berethor]

It not just social norm, it natural preference, because men tend to be taller than women.

[Asker]

I highly doubt that a taller, less prettier guy will get more attention than the shorter, more prettier ones lol.

[Berethor]

It actually fairly likely to happen, and as I said a man's shortness is a flaw, imperfection.

[suzzieQ]

So just to be clear you think that it is a flaw and unmasculine to be 5'6" and that the way things should be because you feel that way?

[Berethor]

The average for men in US is 5'9", so 5'6" is short, runtness is flaw and unmasculine.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Runt

[suzzieQ]

Are you able to answer the question?

[Berethor]

I answered it many time but you stubborn, there is data about height, it not just feeling.

[suzzieQ]

So yes or no? It’s a yes or no question. I’m just trying to understand why you would believe that?

[suzzieQ]

I just find it interesting because that mentality seems very similar to the mentality hitler had towards the Jews, and the mentality white European immigrants had towards people of color, just because of the genetics they were born with

[Berethor]

Heightism? I consider it a brutal honesty, it happen in nature, runts have a hard time.

[suzzieQ]

And Hitler considered racism brutal honesty...

[suzzieQ]

You know, he considered Jews to be runts or inferior, just like you seem to feel the same about men below overage height...
Which is ironic since taller people are at higher risk for a plethora of health issues.

[Berethor]

Godwin's Law, so the votes? 78% of women don't want short man, I'm aware of the health risks but we all die someday, so being desirable to women or living few years longer.

www.cnbc.com/.../...onger-than-most-heres-why.html

[suzzieQ]

Then why are the vast majority of women with men under 6 ft?

[Asker]

@suzzieQ You're arguing with a man's preferences in shorter women? LOL. More women than men are discriminating of men's height than vice versa. At least it seems that way.

[suzzieQ]

No I am not actually.
And if that were true then why are the vast majority of women with men under 6 ft?

[Berethor]

Vast majority of women don't live in Netherlands, is called settling, it not preference.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't care. She can have dwarfism or gigantism or be somewhere in the middle.

[WonderBell99]

Eh, not really. I prefer men who are around 5’6-6’0. Anything more than that becomes a bit iffy.

[melanieeeB]

Nope, he has to be taller than me.. Ideally around 5'7-ish

[Still-alive]

i made it ;)

[melanieeeB]

Hahaha great🙏🏼

[llorando]

"I made it" Turtle says not so fast.

[Anonymous]

Yea same. Or more +
To me that’s both great!
Less - kinda challenging for me because I prefer sane height or taller

[PinkMichae]

Luckily there's 25% of us that doesn't discriminate.

[Asker]

Actually I'd say 99% lol. The rest pretend not to discriminate. Especially mostly women.

[DancingQueen16]

Well I wouldn't really have a problem if the person I was with was taller or shorter than me but me and my current partner are about the same height

[EmmaMary]

Taller... My husband is 6' 3" and I'm 5' 10".

[ariadneR]

My partner is a foot taller than me, and I wouldn't have it any other way

[TacosRAwesome]

Same height if I'm wearing heels but not same height barefoot.

[Nikki1989]

I prefer guys around my height. Even my husband is too tall at 5'7.

[Sharminaktar22]

Taller all the way. I feel weird around people shorter because I’m tall ☹️🙃 this includes men.

[htmndg183]

Yes. Ideally taller. But same height is ok too. The shortest i'd go is 3 inches shorter than me.

[DizzyDesii]

Nah Preferably 5’7-6’2

[singlemombizz]

I need someone taller, I am only 5ft 2

[Babygirl_S]

Taller because I like to feel dominated.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Sounds fine, but taller is ideal.

[llorando]

No as height doesn't matter.

[JosyJosy]

Yeah it's perfect