Why there is no such thing as "The Right" person. Do you agree?

[Asad1ONE1]

The problem with people (family or not, friends or not, significant other or not, strangers or not) is that they are emotional, get annoyed or are indifferent to certain issues, and will never understand or relate to anyone due to different perspectives, life experiences and thought patterns (unless they are emotionally intelligent that is), therefore it is recommended that you keep all or most thoughts to yourself and NEVER trust anyone.

Gender is also a factor here.

Or if you still truly believe you can find the right person, you keep your HEAD HIGH, put in the work and keep searching.

Or else, if you are not going to do that, learn to be content.

Only *God* will understand and truly love you.

Because *He* knows.

*He* doesn't think.

If you are searching for "the right" person, not only do they not exist...

They cannot exist.

Just attempt and learn not to care about petty details and about things you cannot change. Life is too short for this.

Life is too short to not focus on yourself.

Stop wasting your *time*.

Next life is eternal and fair.

Earn it.

[BCRanger10]

I think that might be a bit of a dramatic way of putting it, though I do agree with the basic premise. The "right person", "the one" is a fantasy. It takes humility, justice, and initiative out of the picture. If someone spends so much time looking for "the one", then they risk overlooking the fact that everyone has their flaws and shortcomings, as well as the fact that the other person will reasonably have expectations and needs that they will have to rise up to.

What it essentially does is it limits what each person will be willing to love and how they will love.

[Guy13]

There is no perfect match because we all are fundamentally imperfect. The highest probability of success is same worldview as well as gentle and patient heart.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes "not perfect"

[Asad1ONE1]

I've heard:

Instead of trying to find "the right" person, be "the right" person. And that goes for all of us.

[Guy13]

Yep. Agapao in the Greek Agape is what I describe as a spousal love and is not a feeling but a choice to love sacrificially.

A love that volunteer to absorb suffering, discomfort, inconvenience with a gentle and humble spirit. An ability to love both in-spite of one’s bad traits and because of one’s good traits.
To do that is being the right person.

[Asad1ONE1]

Huh? Empathizing with spirits?

[LazerBean]

There's no perfect person, but there are certain a very specific few that will be as close to perfect as humanly possible and will be waaaaay more easy to be married to than other people.

[clampfan101]

There’s a difference between the "right" person and the "perfect" person. (The second doesn’t exist.)