She won't quit contacting him. What is wrong with her?

[tempirl2012]

So my ex and I have been sleeping together for 5 days now and his baby mom is always calling him. I told her to stop contacting him because he obviously STILL dont want her nor that baby she's pregnant with. She was like, "As long as i'm pregnant with his child, I'm going to contact him. I need his help" like girl he BLOCKED YOU! He barely EVER read her text messages as well. Lol i look through his phone and there are 20+ unread messages from her. What is her problem? Then she calls me stupid for staying with him because i know she's pregnant. That has nothing to do with me. And no, im not mad at him, im mad at her because she won't quit contacting my soon to be man again. I told her if she contacts him again, im going to hurt her.

[Anonymous]

It's important to recognize that threatening or hurting someone is never an appropriate or effective way to resolve a conflict or issue. It's important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, while also recognizing and respecting the boundaries and feelings of everyone involved.

It's possible that your ex's baby mom is feeling scared or overwhelmed about her pregnancy, and is seeking support and comfort from him as the father of her child. While it may be frustrating or difficult for you, it's important to recognize that her behavior may be coming from a place of fear and uncertainty.

It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your ex and his baby mom about your concerns and feelings, while also expressing your willingness to support them both in a healthy and respectful way. It may also be helpful to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals, such as a therapist or counselor, who can offer guidance and support as you navigate this situation.

Remember, it's important to prioritize open and honest communication, mutual respect, and empathy in any relationship, while also recognizing and respecting the boundaries and feelings of everyone involved. It's never appropriate to threaten or hurt someone, and it's important to seek help and support if you are feeling overwhelmed or conflicted in your relationships.

[D_Bone_Steak]

So you're hooking up with a guy that's about to end up paying child support...

I don't think you should be mad at her as in wanting to hurt her, that would be making his problem, your problem. Try to be at least a little empathetic. What if your current man has you pregnant, and he decided to just start sleeping with his ex for the past 5 days? <--Think about that scenario from her shoes... she might of been in love, is scared, is very hurt by what is going on, et cetera and try not to judge her from your on viewpoint if you know better... because she isn't you.

Plus why is it irritating you... she's contacting him right? He could always just not respond, put her messages on mute, and ghost, until he gets served the child support papers. Do you plan on living your life with a man that will always have minus a 50% paycheck? I'm just curious about that. Like, what's the motivation behind wanting an ex? Aren't ex's exes for a reason or two?

[tempirl2012]

We've been together for years. He only known her for 2 months.

[Softlife808]

To be honest, he doesn't want you. You're still an ex yet he chose to have a baby with the other woman. She's most likely unable to perform while pregnant so he's using you until the baby comes. Once the babies out he's done with you.

Learn to love yourself. He's using you as a cum dumpster.

[tempirl2012]

Well he lets me come over to the house and lets me inside. She can't come at all. Lol so im sure he doesn't't want HER!

[Softlife808]

@tempirl2012 hun just like your name, you're a temp. He cheated on you with her. He had a baby with her. Are you even able to have kids or did he just prefer to get her pregnant for beautiful genes? I hate to break it to you but that's what men do. He's not going to get someone pregnant he doesn't find beautiful with good genes. So think about it. You're not that girl

[magiusX26]

so your bed buddy ( EX ) you are still having sex with's baby mama contacts him and you have an issue with it. well guess what, its his kid too so she has a right to contact him about their child.

[wannabecuck-2]

U should let her contact him how can she raise a child alone how can u lack empathy for her if somrone made u pregnant then cheated what would u do she is right i feel u should let her contact him.