Well sounds like she can’t lose weight because she doesn’t want to enough to be motivated. You can encourage y’all to start a healthy life style but you really can’t force it.
No, you're not bad, you have preferences. If you care about her, and you and her want her to lose weight, you're going to have to hold her hand with losing weight until she loses some to gain confidence.
It's not bad to want your partner to lose a bit of weight especially if they put the weight on during the relationship. Fact is if she doesn't have the drive there's not much you can do.
And not everything is about her either. He has the right to have a preference and feel happy as well. Stop making everything about women. Men are just as important.
Everything isn't about women there is give and take in every relationship. there are loads about you that isn't perfect so don't throw stones when you live in a glass house.
@Luckycharms12 Telling someone not to throw stones when living in a glass house applies to someone pointing to someone else's flaws while neglecting their own. That's not applicable when it comes to this topic. The topic is a bout a guy who asks whether he is a bad person for wanting his significant other to lose excess weight. And people here are telling him that he is. Unironically, some users who I KNOW are overweight themselves. It's a defense mechanism.
The reason why I mentioned to stop making it about her is because society is so fixated on catering to women's feelings and insecurities. While neglecting that of a man. Men also have the right to have preferences and shouldn't be shamed for having them.
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Well sounds like she can’t lose weight because she doesn’t want to enough to be motivated. You can encourage y’all to start a healthy life style but you really can’t force it.
Changer her environment to make fat loss easier.
Buy more healthy foods and put unhealhty stuff out of sight or out of the house.
Find out some activity you guys can do together, walks, badminton, wall climbing etc.
No, you're not bad, you have preferences.
If you care about her, and you and her want her to lose weight, you're going to have to hold her hand with losing weight until she loses some to gain confidence.
Without knowing anything about your girfriend's situation, it ould be a thyroid thing.
It's not bad to want your partner to lose a bit of weight especially if they put the weight on during the relationship. Fact is if she doesn't have the drive there's not much you can do.
using your own logic here. are women dumb for being more emotional?
Perhaps there is something wrong with her hormonal system or something like that you should probably go to a doctor to get a medical check up
Considering she wants to lose weight, have you thought of making it a group activity?
Diet is key... lay off the carbs and eat small meals a few times a day.. you need to burn more calories then you consume
I'd like to have some private sessions with her to help her get to the root of the problem.
For me, I removed all the carbs and dropped 50 lbs. No exercise.
Why do you care? You got with her knowing her body and now it’s a problem?
You are not a bad partner for wanting her to lose weight. You are a bad partner because you want her to lose weight for the wrong reasons
I think you need to suffer as a single man
You support her instead of making her feel like 💩
maybe she has emotional eating
What about liposuction?
The woman in the photo looks perfect to me
Chubby girls are beautiful.
You ever think she is happy
Not everything is about you
And not everything is about her either. He has the right to have a preference and feel happy as well. Stop making everything about women. Men are just as important.
Everything isn't about women there is give and take in every relationship. there are loads about you that isn't perfect so don't throw stones when you live in a glass house.
@Luckycharms12 Telling someone not to throw stones when living in a glass house applies to someone pointing to someone else's flaws while neglecting their own. That's not applicable when it comes to this topic. The topic is a bout a guy who asks whether he is a bad person for wanting his significant other to lose excess weight. And people here are telling him that he is. Unironically, some users who I KNOW are overweight themselves. It's a defense mechanism.
The reason why I mentioned to stop making it about her is because society is so fixated on catering to women's feelings and insecurities. While neglecting that of a man. Men also have the right to have preferences and shouldn't be shamed for having them.