How’d you feel if your SO forbids you to post a picture of them online or even talk about your relationship to others until you’re engaged? (Page 2)

[Unit1]

Since I don't use social media and don't post pictures of myself online I'd expect any girlfriend to respect my preference, so there's that.

[Legendarylegacy13]

I don't like my pics floating around either but un not a cheater maybe he has issues with people that he doesn't like that doesn't like him

[Sasha0426]

If he isn’t comfortable about putting stuff online, that’s fine. But, if wants to act single, I’ll do the same thing 🤷‍♀️

[sirderpsalot123]

I wouldn't care about the pictures, but I wouldn't be with someone who I have to hide from family and close friends.

[Fuentes]

Why do they all need to know online Lol

[sirderpsalot123]

Exactly lol so if that was the reason I get that. It's mostly people I went to school with, old co-workers, and people I only met a few times... they don't need to know everything

[dreamstar72]

I probably would understand since there could be a intuitive reason.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Sounds dodge. I wouldn't be with him. I can post whatever I want..

[clampfan101]

I’d tell her I don’t want our dating to feel like something she had to hide, or I would just feel shame.

[worldscolide]

See I don't care if she talks about me online, I hyst refuse to have my pictures taken and posted.

[kevdogg33a]

My current situation. I understand why she's so hesitant; her family is judgmental and there's a pretty significant age gap between us. Plus, I'm white American and she's Mexican.

[MysteriousDarkness]

If I am to keep the relationship a secret then it's over.

[Crankor]

Sounds like the so would be trying to hide something

[abc3643]

Respect their wishes.

[Pinay_ako]

You’re ok with that?

[abc3643]

Yes. It's a question of personal privacy.
You respect your SO's wishes on stuff like that.

At the same time, this should be a bone of contention. You should be able to go public that the other person is your SO. So, if the SO says "No", you have the right to ask why and get a legitimate answer. Short of that, break-up.

[dragoblack]

That is a huge red flag. Dude will probably be cheating or looking for someone he considers better

[Guardian45]

In some cultures, its considered bad luck, or he's shy, or he's shady AF!

[JonesT10Apr]

it's their privacy... sometimes we wanna respect their privacy

[RavVid]

I hate photos of me so I would be likely to say no.

[DermalPunch]

I am that SO. So no issue

[Reddy4it]

Makes you wonder why…

[Pete671]

I would respect their wish for privacy,,,

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Id respect her privacy.