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If he is the marrying type and you have said "not me," then asking him to buy you a ring - of any type - is a way of rubbing his face in it. That may not be your intent, but it would feel that way to me if I was in his position.
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Different people will react in different ways. Considering you explained you wanted it for your middle finger and just wanted it as a reminder of him, I don't think it was a bad idea. I'd imagine I'd have understood (not that I'm suggesting anything negative of your boyfriend, we all misinterpret things at times).
Doesn't seem like a loaded request especially since you already had the I don't wanna get married discussion. It wouldn't hurt to tell him again you don't want to get married and are just looking for a specific ring
Yea even I would've thought you were hinting at engagement. Maybe you should have told him for decoration or as a promise ring
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Not bad at all to ask. Kind of wondering why he didn't know instead of you asking. You never want to be married?
I would have considered this a pretty normal request for a gift to be honest.
I'd tell you no, a ring has too much symbolism. Either you get one for marriage or we'll go with a necklace.
Well, you let him know, so now the ball is in his court and for him to make a decision.
I think it's fine. Another way is to say "hey for my birthday I saw this ring, I want, relax it's not an engagement ring. It's jist acute ring I like"
If you got a job you can buy your own toys. Its tacky to ask for a specific thing, if your birthday comes around and he decides to do something for you, it's appropriate to accept the gesture whatever it is but if your with him for toys, well I guess thats his issue
I would have liked somebody to give me a little guidance as to what tro buy her for her birthday. I have wasted a lot of money on stupid stuff over the years.
You should not have to ask he should just think of things like that through you conversations, thats how you learn about each other talking and being honest with one another.
That's fine with me since I'm not willing to buy any wedding rings with my money anyway
That sounds reasonable. How much does it cost?
well figure out what your answer is going to be when he gets down on one knee..
I would say. "You better choke up on the bat"
Whats in it for me
I'd smile and open a boxful and say pick one
She'll get a ring when the due time arrives.
No it was not bad.
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Sure why not
C-ya!
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