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Am I stupid to have hope for him to want to meet his child one day?

I’m 22 years old and he is 26. I am 4 months pregnant he was super happy about it in fact more than I was? And All of a sudden he changed. He listened to his ffiends and they were telling him he’s not able to be a dad, he’s gonna be on lockdown and that he’s gonna be trapped forever and he’s saying that I’m trying to trap him and has gotten so paranoid and said he won’t ever wanna see his own first kid. He was threatening to kill himself and harm himself and was just so stressed out about it he’d even turn up to my house at night to try and get me to come out so he could cry and yell at me. I told him to stop turning up unannounced threatening me or I’ll call the police and to stop forcing me into a abortion and that I’m keeping the kid and to not contact me if he’s just gonna force me into having a abortion as that’s my child and I can’t. He’s now blocked me it’s been 3 days. I know this is not a minor situation at all and it’s a big thing for a man, but will he ever come around? Am I delusional for thinking he will want to see his kid I just have hope. It dosent matter if he dosent I’m still fine alone and I understand he may never want too as he’s said. But is there any possibility he may want too in the future. I mean it’s his kid and as much as I wanted my kid to have a dad I understand that may not be the case but does anyone think it’s possible for him to actually wanna be in the kids life? It’s his child and he was so excited at first planning everything out for me and the kid and just completely switched up?

Am I stupid to have hope for him to want to meet his child one day?
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