I'm starting to dislike her? Should I leave?

[Anonymous]

It's just as the title of the question says, I've been talking/dating this girl for the past 6 months and things started off really good.. up until after the 5 1/2 month mark. April was the worst month of me knowing this girl. She put me through a lot. Recently, I caught her in a lie and she's being super sneaky. Please do keep in mind that we are doing long distance. We started off as close friends and began to like each other and here we are now.

Overtime I just found myself liking this girl less and less as more of her personality began to shine through because of her becoming more comfortable with me. I recently caught her in a lie which was really hurtful to me because I know that if I bring it up it's gonna get interesting. I recently deactivated my twitter but I still stalk her page just to see what she's posting since I'm not on there and there's some deleted tweets with people replying talking about relationship stuff and tweeting out strange tweets like she's been talking to other guys. I just feel like she's lied to me, she's sneaky, and she likes talking to other guys too much. She takes a lot of time to reply to my messages and will leave me unopened for hours while chatting with other people (some are even guys inviting her places).

I remember that when I met her I was talking to another girl and she seemed super nice and I feel like she started to open up to me but then I dropped her to get with this current girl. I feel bad. Should I tell the girl that I'm currently with that I feel like reaching out to the old girl (we were just friends and she knows that but I'm 99% sure it would hurt her to hear me that say). I just feel like I lost someone that was super cool and now I have no one to talk to while she chats it up (we're both two isolated individuals).

Now keep in mind, this girl tells me that she loves me and that I'm the best thing that's ever happened to her and everything. She even tells me how she wants me sexually and flirts all that.

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I just feel like we’re growing apart from one another. She doesn’t make me feel secure in this relationship whatsoever. I’ve tried telling her some of my frustrations with the relationship again, and again and she doesn’t seem to change much at all. I am set to move closer to where she lives in the next 5 weeks and I don’t know how I feel about all that. I am grateful for this girl because she did change my life. She motivates me to be a better man and that wondered if I should keep her for that

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are feeling unhappy and unsure about your relationship with this girl. It's important to listen to your own feelings and to prioritize your own emotional well-being in any relationship.

If you are finding that you are starting to dislike this girl and that her behavior is making you feel unhappy or uncomfortable, it may be time to consider ending the relationship. It's not healthy to stay in a relationship that is causing you stress or anxiety.

Before making any decisions, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your feelings and concerns. Let her know how her behavior is making you feel and give her the opportunity to respond and make changes.

If you are considering reaching out to the old girl that you were friends with, it's important to be honest with your current girlfriend about your intentions. However, it's also important to consider whether reaching out to the old girl is a healthy choice for you and whether it could potentially cause more harm than good.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what is best for you and your emotional well-being. If you are feeling unhappy or uncomfortable in your current relationship, it may be time to consider ending things and focusing on your own needs and desires.

[Anonymous]

It's just to fuck maybe you both seem immature af

[Asker]

what's just to f***? how do we both seem immature?

[Opinion Owner]

y'all are playing games

[Asker]

You're very much right. We're both young and these are just childish games but that's the thing.. we aren't little kids although we're acting like them. We just need to communicate more I think.