Is it possible? we just feel we can’t be together because of the long distance and it’s not fair to either of us because we can’t have something real so how can we be friends we talk less? But she doesn’t want that because it’s too hard and we don’t want to lose each other
It's simple: either you both commit to a plan to be together, including geographically, or you make a clean break. Anything else means you are investing your precious time and emotions into something that will never pay off, and thus missing out on the opportunity to meet someone else who would work out. It's literally the worst thing you can do.
Never, ever get involved in a Long Distance Relationship. This is what happens.
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I wanted to be friends with my LD ex. She never agreed. Since we didn't met in person, I never cared to be a friend for her. Problem is: I still have some feelings for her. A tiny bit, but is there. Although is sexual, there is no possibility of a real friendship is there isn't really a feeling of friendship.
How long is the distance? It might be worth exploring if the distance isn't that far. Me and my boyfriend are sort of long distance. We live 2 hours away from each other and we make it work. Neither one of us can travel that often because of work and such but we do try to see each other as much as we can but it is rare for us to see each other.
I mean, might consider finding ways to make it work if it matters to you both
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Sure because that's how me and my boyfriend were before we started dating we were best friends for like seven years
I always wondered how it feels knowing someone has feelings for you..
I wouldn’t be comfortable to be honest, I’m not used having someone wanting anything from me so it would be a lot of pressure
both? not likely but friend zone is when one or both not atracted
"Feelings" can be deceptive. But most cannot overcome that with logic, so if you cannot it is best to avoid each other.
People have this thing called self-control. Use it.
Feelings - by product of chemicals that are generated inside of us. It impairs the logical side of the brain.
Yes it is possible
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